I’M INTO THIS GUY, BUT I’VE HEARD HE HAS A GIRL­FRIEND. SHOULD I TAKE A LEAP OF FAITH AND TELL HIM HOW I FEEL ANY­WAY?

Women's Health (South Africa) - - GUY NEXT DOOR -

Hmmm, this is su­per-tough to give any kind of ad­vice on. I’m sure many a leg­endary ro­mance through­out his­tory came from this kind of sce­nario where one per­son was unavail­able through be­ing in a re­la­tion­ship yet the out­sider (aka, the other wo­man, the other man or the happy home­breaker) made a move. Is that home happy? Does he seem in­ter­ested in you at all? Could you han­dle it if some­one did this to you (made a move on a man you were in a re­la­tion­ship with)? Is this guy def­i­nitely worth all the com­pli­ca­tions you are lin­ing up to cause and tackle? You’ve got to weigh all these things up (and many more) and de­cide whether you should be do­ing this. My vote would be no. Go find a guy who is just as great and (bonus) sin­gle. Chas­ing af­ter peo­ple in re­la­tion­ships is just go­ing to open you up to a world of drama and ad­min (even if you might think there is some­thing kind of ap­peal­ing about his un­avail­abil­ity).

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