I’M INTO THIS GUY, BUT I’VE HEARD HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND. SHOULD I TAKE A LEAP OF FAITH AND TELL HIM HOW I FEEL ANYWAY?
Hmmm, this is super-tough to give any kind of advice on. I’m sure many a legendary romance throughout history came from this kind of scenario where one person was unavailable through being in a relationship yet the outsider (aka, the other woman, the other man or the happy homebreaker) made a move. Is that home happy? Does he seem interested in you at all? Could you handle it if someone did this to you (made a move on a man you were in a relationship with)? Is this guy definitely worth all the complications you are lining up to cause and tackle? You’ve got to weigh all these things up (and many more) and decide whether you should be doing this. My vote would be no. Go find a guy who is just as great and (bonus) single. Chasing after people in relationships is just going to open you up to a world of drama and admin (even if you might think there is something kind of appealing about his unavailability).