I’M SAVED AS “AUNT ESTER” ON HIS PHONE. PROBLEM IS, I’M NOT HIS AUNT AND THAT’S NOT MY NAME. AM I THE OTHER WOMAN?
Eish. It would seem you are. Unless of course you guys got drunk and engaged in some odd familybased role play that you can’t remember. Confront him about it. Ask him directly if you are his other woman (beating around the bush gives duplicitous characters a chance to think up stories). If he does not have a very good explanation for it (and is not open to you swinging by unannounced at any time to his spot where other girlfriends could meet you), then he is definitely hiding something (you). Drop his ass. Now.