YOU (South Africa) - - SAY -

I’m al­most 40 and at­tract much younger guys. The youngest one to chat me up was 15 years my ju­nior. It’s not as if I’m out there look­ing for younger guys. I’ve never been mar­ried and have no kids. Life just hap­pened. Dat­ing af­ter 30 is tough and guys our age come with their own bag­gage of ex-wives, baby mamma dra­mas and so forth.

But if we vibe, we vibe – no mat­ter what age he might be, es­pe­cially if he treats me right and pays his own way.

I’m def­i­nitely not a blesser. Nor am I a cougar. That term to me is deroga­tory and paints a pic­ture of an older woman prowl­ing on younger guys. GOOD VIBES, EMAIL

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