New­ly­weds en­counter ‘BIG prob­lem’ that the wife just can­not han­dle

The China Post - - TV & COMICS -

DEAR AN­NIE: I am 30 and my wife is 27, and we are com­pletely in love. My wife is a very spir­i­tual woman and wanted to wait un­til we were mar­ried to have sex. I re­spected her choice and we were en­gaged for al­most two years. No prob­lem.

Then comes the wed­ding. BIG prob­lem. We sim­ply do not fit phys­i­cally. I am more en­dowed than my very pe­tite wife can han­dle. Our wed­ding night was a night­mare. Since then, we have tried to have sex many times. The re­sults are al­ways the same — she is phys­i­cally hurt and I feel ter­ri­ble.

What can we do? We have talked to doc­tors and they have sug­gested lu­bri­cants, etc., but noth­ing works.

— Too Much of a Good Thing

Dear Too Much: We know this makes sex­ual in­ti­macy dif­fi­cult and your wife’s an­tic­i­pa­tion of pain may now be a con­tribut­ing fac­tor to the prob­lem. Have you tried dif­fer­ent po­si­tions where she has more con­trol over what’s go­ing on? Also, please look into as­sis­tance through the Amer­i­can As­so­ci­a­tion of Sex­u­al­ity Ed­u­ca­tors, Coun­selors and Ther­a­pists at aasect.org.

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