What happens if some one makes up a false allegation of harassment?
So what I want to know is, what if you and that female had a misunderstanding maybe at work or college and she took the advantage to go and report you for harassment. How will the police know if she’s telling the truth or is it because its a female who reports it she must be right. Diddice Dubai A recent letter - ‘A plea to women in provocative clothing to show some selfrespect’ - not only got some of our female readers agitated but also got me thinking as to why men always point fingers at what women wear. Why is it so difficult to understand that women like to dress according to their comfort level and not only for others, but for themselves? Why is there a dress code only for women? There’s talk about provoking men – well, in simple terms, if you don’t like it, don’t look. And if you as a man get provoked by how a woman is dressed then be ready to face a woman’s wrath. More importantly, even if we are conservatively dressed, there are men who will stare and get provoked. Don’t judge a woman by the way she dresses. With that in mind, I thought I’d provide a list of what to and what not to wear for men: - Shave your legs when you wear shorts - Don’t wear singlets - Don’t go out in your flip-flops - Don’t show your cleavage - Don’t wear tight T-shirts if you are overweight and don’t have six-pack abs. Women have enough self-respect and decency to know what looks good on them and what doesn’t. Which woman doesn’t want to look good? Each and every person has a style of their own, there’s no need for moral policing based on clothes. It’s a free world and every person has a right to live and lead their own lives. If men are so easily provoked by how women dress, then how about you men taking and giving some lessons to your own kind on how to control your emotions. Men definitely need to learn to respect women, their choices and freedom. Men need to stop ogling, following, stalking, humiliating, molesting and abusing women. So stop looking at who is dressed how, up your own style stakes and calm your provocation down.