YOU SAY

I had to respond to the woman who’s being messed around by a flirtatious work colleague (Dear Coleen, May 9).

I was in the same situation in my mid-20s with a bloke who also had a live-in girlfriend, and he led me on too. I’m talking from experience here – be very careful. This man may not have slept with you, but he’s still betraying his girlfriend by kissing you and it shows what kind of person he is.

Nip it in the bud while you can and carry on with the job you love. He’s simply not worth it.

He’s a player who loves to have his ego boosted.

I hope his girlfriend realises what a rat he is. Jackie, via email