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MY life is way too predictable. My dull partner never wants to do anything exciting.
I’d like him to dress as a woman and seduce me with a strap-on sex toy, only he won’t agree. I feel I’ve got so much energy and so much to give, yet he’s holding me back.
Recently I paid for sex with a male escort and felt alive for the first time in ages. Am I a bad person?
JANE SAYS: If you’re stuck in a rut and life is passing you by, then you owe it to yourself to make changes. Talk to your partner, explain about the male escort and apologise for letting him down.
However, if he’s not willing to meet you halfway and you can no longer stand living with him, then prepare to move on. Make meeting more like-minded people a priority.