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MY girlfriend’s kinky tastes are freaking me out.
She likes to be spanked and pushed to her very limits whenever we make love.
She encourages me to insult her, call her names and inflict real pain. She loudly complains when I’m too soft.
She screams that she needs to “squeal” in order to function.
This just doesn’t come naturally to me. It’s too strange, but I’m afraid to speak out in case she dumps me.
Sometimes she’ll turn up at my flat in just a raincoat and high heels – nothing underneath.
She pretends that she’s come to interrogate me and I have to get into role-play mode.
The other night she had me stretched out on the bed – with my wrists and ankles tied to the metal posts – as she flicked me with a feather duster.
Then out came the riding crop and I freaked out. I ordered her to untie me. She did and happily took my place instead.
I just don’t know how I got through the next few hours.
She had me doing things that I never imagined possible.
I was finally allowed to fall asleep in the early hours feeling guilty, confused and exhausted.
But, the next morning, she was all smiles. As the weather was nice she suggested a romantic picnic down by the river with a movie to follow.
I’d hate for her to tell anyone that I’m a wimp who can’t keep up. She’s a bit of a player and dated many other guys before me. She often brags about her sexual history and it’s enough to make my hair curl.
We’ve been together for a few months and she’s the most attractive girl I’ve ever been out with.
But dating her is complicated and I worry about what might lie ahead. Is she going to calm down or will things become even more physical and intense in time? JANE SAYS: Your girl may well be attractive and exciting, but If you’re out of your depth; if this relationship isn’t working for you; if it’s making you feel sick and uncomfortable; then you’ve got to be truthful and tell her “no more”.
The reality is that she’s on another planet to you.
Yes, she’s sexy and edgy, but you have nothing in common.
You don’t like the way she makes love and you aren’t sexually satisfied yourself. You never know what you’re going to come up against next. Do yourself a favour and walk away. I’m not saying that you’re right and she’s wrong; you’re just different.
Talk to her in a calm, respectful environment. Make it clear that you like her, but feel you’ve gone as far as you can as a sexually active couple. The problem is that you can’t give her what she craves and you’d hate for frustration or resentment to ever creep in.
Also, if you genuinely live in fear of her “telling tales out of school” and being disloyal or indiscreet about you, then you’re in the wrong relationship.
I suspect that she must be feeling that she’s forcing a situation that simply isn’t working too.
She might just be relieved to hear that you want out.
SQUEAL APPEAL: Wild saucepot’s into spanking and role play but it’s just not my cup of tea