Should you ever go back to an ex-boyfriend ?

Is it worth pur­su­ing love with the same per­son a sec­ond time round? Does every­body de­serve a sec­ond chance?

No. 1 Magazine - - EDINBURGH -

The Great De­bate

Life coach Sue Macgillivray sa says“yes!”

I am a strong be­liever that ev every­body de­serves an­other chance chance. So, why would you go back? It’s worth firstly ques­tion­ing why yo you broke up. Was it im­pul­sive, a bad de­ci­sion or just the wrong time? All rea­sons to try again. Per­haps, how­ever, there was some­one else in in­volved, you were in­com­pat­i­ble, wanted dif­fer­ent things, you were too dis­sim­i­lar or just didn didn’t share the spark? Here are my top seven rea­sons to give things an­other go: 1) You miss him? Time apart en­ables us to ap­pre­ci­ate those we love. We can bet­ter re­mem­ber the good times, the fun we had, the places we went and how much that per­son means to us. It gives us time to think about them in a fresh light and know what we miss. Were they funny or hand­some, kind or so­cia­ble, car­ing or in­tel­li­gent, thought­ful or gen­er­ous, sen­si­tiv sen­si­tive, driven or what? 2) If you re­ally miss him rather than just an any­one, it could be time to try again? Your heart was else­wher else­where. Some­times our emo­tions get in the way of fully con­nect­ing. Per­haps your heart was still in your last re­la­tion­ship

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