Sex & Love Advice
Expert tips from sex and relationship guru Annabelle Knight
This week, I want to talk to you about Holly Willoughby’s recent confession that she wears heels in the bedroom… to ‘wear them’ in, of course! (Yeah, right.) A pair of heels in bed can make you feel incredibly sexy, and powerful, which will do wonders for your confidence. They also make you look really amazing by elongating your legs to epic proportions. They bridge the gap between pleasure and pain – by grazing his skin with your stiletto he’s reminded that you’re the boss, and that, in itself, can be a huge turn on.
My man struggles to keep his erection. He’s assured me that it’s nothing to do with our relationship, but I’m worried and I don’t know how to help him. A: Firstly, you need to relax and trust your partner. Secondly, you need a love ring. Trust me, this is the sex toy that every couple should have in their bedside drawer and it can help prolong his erection. You can also pick up vibrating ones (and they pack quite a buzz) meaning that you’ll both get a real kick out of using it!
So many girls fancy my boyfriend, they always like his Instagram pics and it makes me really uncomfortable. What can I do about it? A: Social media can be terrible for your relationship. My advice is to spend less time using it to have more time with your boyfriend. Work on building a strong, trusting relationship. Once you’ve done that, you won’t care how many likes he gets or who they’re from.
Dear Annabelle, My flatmate has started seeing someone new and insists on having really loud sex with him. It’s embarrassing and I don’t know how to bring it up. A: House sharing can be tricky, especially when you add lovers to the mix. You need to speak to her sooner rather than later as the longer you leave it the more difficult (and more embarrassing) it becomes. I’d start the conversation by asking if there’s anything that you do that bothers her, then when she returns the question, you can bring it up, naturally.