Pick Me Up! reader Jackie Wilson says, ‘I don’t think you can expect someone to give up everything to fulfil your own dream, especially as it wasn’t on the cards when you got together. If he did go with you, he might grow to resent you for it.
I can’t imagine giving up a good job to move abroad with someone, and then have to rely on them financially. It might be best to look for equally exciting opportunities in this country – and enjoy your relationship here.’