Ask Anne Since she I’m sick of rat race and long to escape had baby my wife’s gone off sex

I’ve been working my guts out for years at a pretty tough job in the City and I would love to give up the rat race and go and live in the country and do something that would make me feel happy. How can I convince my wife and kids? My wife doesn’t want intimacy any more. I’ve tried to talk to her about it, but she acts like its a dirty suggestion.

We’re both in our thirties and have just had our first baby.

We don’t even have any bad money worries or anything – and she doesn’t seem too stressed. I can’t understand it, but everything has changed.