He’s marrying someone else
Ihave written to you before and when I showed my partner your response, he just laughed. This is the fourth time he has left me to go to Canada for months at a time. I heard that he told someone he was getting married over there and I’m at my wits’ end. I love this man unconditionally. I’m so stressed out thinking about how he could do this to me. what can I do?
Don’t put the title of ‘unconditional love’ on what you feel for this man. He walks all over you and you get nothing back from him. That’s not love, it’s self-harm – change the locks, seek counselling and tell friends and family you need support. I’m printing your letter as a warning to anyone else in a similar situation. If you’re with someone who laughs at your pain it doesn’t matter what names your wishful thinking puts on the relationship. The fact is, it’s abuse and you should get out… now!