He’s mar­ry­ing some­one else

Woman (UK) - - Family Dilemmas -

Ihave writ­ten to you be­fore and when I showed my part­ner your re­sponse, he just laughed. This is the fourth time he has left me to go to Canada for months at a time. I heard that he told some­one he was get­ting mar­ried over there and I’m at my wits’ end. I love this man un­con­di­tion­ally. I’m so stressed out think­ing about how he could do this to me. what can I do?

Suzie says:

Don’t put the ti­tle of ‘un­con­di­tional love’ on what you feel for this man. He walks all over you and you get noth­ing back from him. That’s not love, it’s self-harm – change the locks, seek coun­selling and tell friends and fam­ily you need sup­port. I’m print­ing your let­ter as a warn­ing to any­one else in a sim­i­lar sit­u­a­tion. If you’re with some­one who laughs at your pain it doesn’t mat­ter what names your wish­ful think­ing puts on the re­la­tion­ship. The fact is, it’s abuse and you should get out… now!

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