MAKE IT WORK
Woman’s agony aunt, Suzie Hayman, says…
It’s oh-so tempting to go back to your ex because he’s the devil you know. and when relationships go wrong, there’s always the nagging feeling that we did something to spoil it, and this time we’ll get it right.
If you’re going to give your relationship another go, both of you need to have taken on board what went wrong before. without recognition and appreciation of the problems, a second (third, fourth or 27th) relationship may be doomed to go along the same lines. Simply saying, ‘Sorry – let’s try again’ isn’t good enough. Instead, ask, ‘what went wrong and how can we make sure it doesn’t happen again?’ to give you a fighting chance.