I want to have an orgasm – please help!
Q I’ve never been able to climax. Several of my relationships failed because of the tension that that has caused, including my most recent one. I’ve decided that the only option is for me to fake it with my next partner. That still leaves me with a problem – never having had an orgasm, I don’t know how to even pretend. Do you have any advice on how I can do this in a way that will keep me and a new man happy? Susan says:
A You can learn how to pretend to climax. But faking with a partner means you’re lying to them. and, it makes it less likely you’ll ever climax for real. next time, choose a partner who’s eager to help you find out just how you can come. For extra help, read The Elusive Orgasm: A Woman’s Guide to Why She Can’t and How She Can Orgasm by Vivienne Cass, available at amazon.co.uk.