I want to have an or­gasm – please help!

Woman (UK) - - Ask The Experts -

Q I’ve never been able to cli­max. Sev­eral of my re­la­tion­ships failed be­cause of the ten­sion that that has caused, in­clud­ing my most re­cent one. I’ve de­cided that the only op­tion is for me to fake it with my next part­ner. That still leaves me with a prob­lem – never hav­ing had an or­gasm, I don’t know how to even pre­tend. Do you have any ad­vice on how I can do this in a way that will keep me and a new man happy? Su­san says:

A You can learn how to pre­tend to cli­max. But fak­ing with a part­ner means you’re ly­ing to them. and, it makes it less likely you’ll ever cli­max for real. next time, choose a part­ner who’s ea­ger to help you find out just how you can come. For ex­tra help, read The Elu­sive Or­gasm: A Woman’s Guide to Why She Can’t and How She Can Or­gasm by Vivi­enne Cass, avail­able at ama­zon.co.uk.

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