Sex is too fast
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we have sex that I’m always left feeling really frustrated. When I ask him to slow down, he acts offended and says I know how to ruin a moment. We’ve only been together 18 months and it’s becoming a huge issue between us. Help. Vicky, 41, by email A There are times to talk about sex and times not to. Mid-sex isn’t one of them. If you want the situation to change, you need to broach this sensitively outside of sex. It’s a more common issue than you think and there are ways to change what’s happening by trying new things, but start with an honest chat.