Aries (March 21-April 19): As for the one you’ve put so much thought into lately: This person makes you happy, but also makes you feel vulnerable. Old fears are surfacing through this relationship. Taurus (April 20-May 20): What can you do that you haven’t before? The events of the day will seem to rhyme, as though everything is echoing parts of something else. There’s a beauty and a comfort in this, also an annoyance. Gemini (May 21-June 21): Time and action will seem to play out in a very analog fashion. Unlike what occurs when you send a text or an email, you’ll be able to finish an action, change your mind, take it back and redo it before it matters. Cancer (June 22-July 22): The feeling of the day is one of unlimited potential. The idea that your best work is still out there will keep you reaching, trying, learning and committing yourself over and over to the promise. Leo (July 23-Aug. 22): The day’s work will thrust you into unusual social circumstances. You’ll be sorting through the frivolous and the earnest today, finding value in both and enjoying the task of handling these sorts of things. Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Over time you could grow to resent those who seem to only add to the rather mundane aspects of the day, even as you cherish those who grace your existence with a spark of the unexpected. Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23): No matter what pessimism may abound in some around you today, your enthusiasm will be difficult to kill, because it is invisible and contagious and moves fast. Stay buoyant. Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov. 21): You like to make people laugh, and you’re good at it. The star of your day will be an Ed McMahon-esque sidekick — someone who supports you, sets you up and gets a good deal of pleasure from your wit, too. Sagittarius (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): The bigger victories will get a party or some kind of epic advertisement; it will be easy to lose yourself in their pronouncement. All the more reason to raise a toast to small victories such as the one this evening. Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): You need the love and affection, but somehow it doesn’t seem right to you if you have to ask for it. The problem is remedied by giving out the sort of thing that you want them to give to you. Don’t worry; in time, they’ll learn. Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): Just because it’s the best answer doesn’t make it right. You’ll be inspired to ask more, go deeper and experiment. This could bother the type of person who likes to leave well-enough alone, but don’t let that dissuade you. Pisces (Feb. 19-March 20): There’s something you used to try and hide or disguise. You’re starting to realize that this circumstance or trait that you once deemed unacceptable may very well be the best opportunity you have to celebrate who you are.
To write to Holiday Mathis, visit www.creators.com/author/ holiday-mathis and click “Contact.” DEAR ABBY >> I’m a 25-year-old lesbian from a suburban area outside the Twin Cities. It’s not easy finding other gay women in this area, unless I visit Minneapolis, which I don’t enjoy. I always seem to fall for straight girls or girls who have always been straight but are bi-curious, which never ends well for me.
My current situation has me stumped. The girl I’m interested in is in a relationship with a man. They have been together for a long time and have kids together. I have kept my distance for the most part because I don’t want to be pushy or seem like a home-wrecker.
As we have grown closer over the past couple of months, she has told me she doesn’t want to be with him anymore. She said she isn’t in love with him and she’s tired of pretending. Recently, she confided that she can’t reach sexual satisfaction unless she thinks about women and she isn’t sure what that means. She made a move on me once. A few weeks ago she kissed me, but nothing has happened since. I’m not sure what to say or do — if anything at all. Help? — No home-wrecker
DEAR NO HOME-WRECKER >> What you should say to this woman is that she’s sending you signals that she’s interested in starting a romantic relationship, and ask her if it’s true. If she says that it is, ask what she plans to do about her boyfriend. If she’s unsure, you will then have to decide how you feel about becoming part of a triangle, because it could get messy. Very messy.
Between us, you would be better off if you focused on finding someone who is available and clear about her orientation. And if it means forcing yourself to go to Minneapolis, then that’s what you should do.
DEAR ABBY >> I have always made it a habit to keep my home neat and tidy. I’m not obsessive; we just make it a point to pick up after ourselves daily, instead of leaving everything a mess and then trying to tackle it all once every week or two. I suppose it also helps that I am child-free.
On more than one occasion, friends who visit my home have commented on how neat and clean I keep it. Some of them have asked if they could pay me to come and clean their homes. I guess a small part of me should be flattered, but I’m also offended. I feel it’s the equivalent of inviting me to a party just to serve the drinks. I have no desire to become an indentured servant to my friends. Am I being too sensitive?
— Not obsessive in New York
DEAR NOT OBSESSIVE >> If you are not obsessive, then why are you obsessing over a compliment these friends were trying to pay you? I sincerely doubt they were serious, unless they began negotiating your weekly rate.
DEAR ABBY >> My wife and I are in good health and have been married for more than 50 years. I would like to take our three children and their spouses on a Caribbean cruise. We all get along well, but my wife refuses to go and the kids won’t go without their mom. Any suggestions? — Bewildered husband in
DEAR HUSBAND >> I wish you had shared more information about why your wife is reluctant to take the cruise and your children are backing their mother up on this. However, since they are acting in lockstep, I suggest you come up with an alternative idea for a family outing, or take the cruise alone.
TO MY JEWISH READERS: Yom Kippur, the Day of Atonement, begins at sundown. During this 24-hour period, observant Jewish people fast, engage in reflection and prayer, and formally repent for any sin that might have been committed during the previous Hebrew year. To all of you — may your fast be an easy one.