Too nice to others?
There she goes again—that “friend” who’s always giving you backhanded compliments. You feel crummy after every run-in, but you keep tolerating her toxicity at your own expense. “There could be a voice inside saying, You don’t deserve respect, or If you lose this relationship, there’s no one else who’ll be nicer to you,” says Desmond. “But you teach people how to treat you by the way you treat yourself.”