Feels Like the Second Time. Or Maybe the Third.
Author and Musician Ari Goldman Details the Pleasures and Difficulties of Getting Started Late
‘One of the messages of the book is that you can’t wait for brilliance.” Spoken by Ari Goldman, veteran journalist for the New York Times, author of four books, including 1992’s “The Search for God at Harvard,” and my former professor at Columbia Journalism School, these words seemed odd to me — the life lesson I’d taken home from the 10 frantic months at J-school costing two annual salaries was that you should always bend over backwards to get every detail perfectly right
Goldman, it turns out, isn’t talking about his profession but about his other passion: playing the cello. When it comes to his musical endeavors, he considers himself anything but perfect. (“If I had to make a living as a musician, I’d starve,” he says.) He first took lessons in his mid-20s, but stopped playing at the age of 35, being too occupied with his job and family. When he witnessed his youngest son playing the same instrument in a youth orchestra, he asked if he could join, becoming by far the oldest student. The experience was later commemorated in an article for The New York Times, after which he was invited to join the Late Starters Orchestra, a New York City group of amateur string players of all levels. Newly motivated, he hatched the plan to become good enough to play for his guests at his 60th birthday party.
He describes what it took to reach this ambitious goal in his latest book, “The Late Starters Orchestra,” which is full of candid observations, funny scenes and interesting background information about music history and psychology. It’s an easy read, and anyone who has ever attempted to play an instrument will sympathize with Goldman’s struggles, which he describes with self-deprecating humor.
My initial hesitation to write about a book of a former teacher of mine (what if I found out details about his personal life I didn’t want to know?) turned out to be as unfounded as my anxiety about the interview (would he comment on my note-taking technique?). Goldman talked openly about his motivation for writing the book, the challenges he faced, and what being an amateur musician has in common with his approach to Judaism.
What was it that made you write an entire book
— called “Big Cello, Little Cello” for the New York Times about playing with my son, and I realized there was more to say, and more of a story to tell, and that there was a message for other people. It’s not just about music, it’s not just reaching for music, it could be any sort of thing you aspire to that’s hard to do, and that seems a little beyond you. Especially for people later in life, when you realize that there are things you’ve always wanted to do but never had a chance to do, and never had a chance to pay attention to. Whether that’s learning a language, or gardening, or playing basketball, horseback riding — whatever sort of dream you have that you defer. Americans are living longer [and] get more leisure time. I wrote the book to tell the story of this lifelong quest, and I hope to inspire other people to music and to other pursuits.
Judaism plays a significant part in your life.
It’s very hard to write about music because words can never capture [it]. I very much admired music writers and music critics, but I admire them even more now. To find the language to describe a musical piece or experience, and to capture sound that by its very definition is beyond words is hard.
In the book you cite studies that show how music instruction can sharpen your brain. Did you feel any effect yourself?
It just gives me a lot of pleasure and comfort. It’s a retreat from our overly plugged-in world. There are just so many electronic stimuli in our lives. For me, playing a classical instrument is a way to disconnect. There are no wires, no plugs. It’s just wood and strings and it’s kind of pure.
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Ari Goldman recounts his struggles in returning to cello in his book ‘The Late Starters Orchestra.’