THE FLIP SIDE: TAKE YOUR CELEBRATION OFFLINE
Prefer to go low-tech, minimize social media, and avoid the glare of 100 touch screens in every photo? While you can’t expect guests to leave phones at home, you can encourage them to disconnect. Some pro tips:
1. Put it in print
“An elegant solution is to add a note in the ceremony program,” suggests Julia Lake, owner of Northern California– based Julia Lake Parties. A note on your wedding website is good advance warning, too.
2. Choose your words wisely
Simply stating “turn off cell phones” can be uncomfortably blunt. “Remind guests that going offline means being more present,” says Shira Savada, our Real Weddings editor.
3. Enlist authority
“Ask your officiant to make a quick, friendly statement just before the ceremony begins,” suggests Diane Gottsman, national etiquette expert and owner of the Protocol School of Texas.
4. Be clear about social media
Because there are many couples who actually encourage pictures, posts, and tweets, state plainly that you don’t want to have your wedding shared online, Gottsman says.
5. Give alternatives
“Go old-school and set out instant cameras so that you have tangible photos without the tech,” suggests Savada. “Or go super-retro, with disposable cameras, and see what develops after your honeymoon!”