Dear Looking Away: Tattoo removal isn’t as easy as waving a magic wand and presto! — it’s gone. The process can take several sessions, can be quite painful, and it must be done by a professional. If this is so important to you that you would put him through that, then ask him nicely. When you do it is up to you.
Dear Abby: I am 39 and the mother of three beautiful daughters, ages 18, 12 and 8. I am getting a divorce. It’s an amicable
Dear Celebrating: A party would be wonderful because you have much to celebrate. Send invitations describing it as a “housewarming, graduation celebration and 40th birthday party,” but do NOT mention gifts on the invitation. If someone asks about it, feel free to tell the person.