JESUS HAS THE ANSWER
Dear child, thank you for having the openness and trust in Me to identify the vanity that led you slightly astray. Charm and attractiveness are so superficial that they can end up working in deceitful ways. You can certainly cultivate these qualities in yourself but know that they are ultimately meaningless in and of themselves. Beauty only takes on meaning when the inside informs the outside. Your Father sees your insides as clearly as He does your outsides, for He made both. When who you are outside matches who you are inside, you’ve achieved true beauty.
Still—no matter—when someone violates you, it is the person who commits the action who defiles himself: You remain clean. You must not blame yourself because your outside seemed to cause something in another person’s inside to lash out. This holds true not only for attractiveness but also in terms of the color of your skin or other aspects of your appearance like age and weight.
You are a beautiful child of a merciful Father. You are completely loved—inside and out. Please walk in this love without self-condemnation or fear. If you make an error, call on Me in love and confess your mistake and it will be removed from your spirit. If another makes an error toward you, forgive as quickly and cleanly as you can. —Jesus to the crowd,
Mark 7:15 NKJV
“There is nothing that enters a man from outside which can defile him; but the things which come out of him, those are the things that defile a man.”