HATERS ONLY EXIST IF YOU LET THEM!
With the growing emergence of social media its common place to see the term “haters” when browsing through news feeds or instagram pictures. The question is do haters really exist and can they cause harm? First we need to determine what a hater really is. I guess thats fairly simple, someone that does not like something, or someone for no particular reason other than they hate it! Kind of a weird mind-set but who said the world was devoid of weird people! So yes, these so called haters do exist in some shape or form but ONLY if you let them. The fact is folk with negative mind sets (haters if you like) are generally very troubled types. Their comments, posts or rants are usually a cry for attention. Yes, its sad some folk would sooner get attention for being a bad person than a good one! Weird right? But very true. So how do we deal with these haters? The easiest solution is to take the word out of your vocabulary. Delete it. Simply don’t recognize the term because most with this mind set are fishing for a bite. When you or anyone else responds to a post or comment it fuels their fire. Generally these trolls as they are called in the internet world live a very sheltered life, have diminished social skills and are often referred to as keyboard warriors. In my mind I actually feel sorry for them because they are tortured by their own negativity. In fact one of the worst things anyone can do on social media is keep posting quotes about haters. By doing this you are putting a target on your back for the haters. You have admitted that you are vulnerable to their comments. Why bother. If you are a positive, confident person the term “haters” has no place in your world. Eliminate the term and you eliminate them from your mind. Full ststop.