HERE SHE COMES AGAIN
Regular readers of DNA may recall a certain lady we called “Sabina” who was the surprise hit of 2013’s European Gay Ski Week in France [see Cameron McCool’s feature in DNA #162]. Thanks to the gay sex parties she hosts, Sabina, whose real name is Svetlana, has earned a glowing reputation among the European gay party set not just for organising gay orgies but for her own surprise involvement in the action. After a few bumps in her party planning this year, including missing her plane for Tel Aviv Pride, Svetlana was back in action at Barcelona Circuit Festival.
The model-like Russian beauty arrived in Barcelona with her gay entourage, plus a hot straight man she picked up in transit, ready to get down to the serious business of getting off with the gays. Hosting what amounted to a week-long bacchanal at her centrally located crash pad, Svetlana set up shop inviting her “family” to come as her “pussy needed feeding”.
The sex parties she hosts (or “sexy parties” as she refers to them in her raspy, Russian accent) always contain core “family members”.
Not all Russians are anti-gay. A much-loved fixture on the international gay circuit is Russian party queen, Svetlana. She lives in a fairy tale family of gay men and at her “sexy party” gatherings they reward her hospitality in their own special way! Marc Andrews reports from Svetlana’s inner-sanctum.
Anyone new has to be invited by a family member and approved by Svetlana, thus ensuring quality control. Her family is closeknit, with Svetlana as the loving matriarch. She cares deeply for all her boys, just as they love and care for her in return.
After one of the big parties in Barcelona this year, my boyfriend and I called on Svetlana around 9am to see what was, well, going down. The boyf and Svetlana have known each other for years on the London scene. Inside her private bordello we stumbled across a bevy of porn stars, hunks who could be porn stars, and an exotic mix of naked men visiting from Syria, Canada, Qatar and all the way from Australia, with most stops covered in between.
New guests, we were greeted with her standard G-rated cocktail and rather rapidly the room started to resemble a gay porn movie set. Except, there was Svetlana, wriggling on the edges, mini-vibrator at the ready, focused on the action and ready to pounce. As the action got hotter, Svetlana got louder, writhing in ecstasy as she watched, almost unblinkingly, groups of gay men fucking, sucking, rimming and, especially, kissing. When they came, she came, and then came again. Yes, Svetlana is the original multiple orgasm gal.
Later, one of her guests, a hunky Israeli power bottom with a distinctive tattoo on his chest, was so turned on by the proceedings that he let Svetlana put on her strap-on to fuck him. And so it went all week. At the end of Circuit, Svetlana posted a message to her family on Facebook advising that her pussy was closed for maintenance, but that she was very content. “I had my own La Leche!”
From Barcelona, Svetlana moved with the gay party crowd to Mykonos, regrouping at a cosy villa on the hillside close to all the action. Via Grindr and Scruff she and her party faithful cajoled others to come… until finally Svetlana had reached breaking point and posted on Facebook that she was “in bed overdosed on men and sex – can u believe it?”
Svetlana’s gay-loving get-togethers have, so far, been Northern Hemisphere affairs. But with the party season hotting up Down
Under she now plans to be in top “sexy party” form during next year’s Sydney Mardi Gras, with prime gay Aussie beef at the top of her souvenir list…
DNA: How was Barcelona Circuit Festival and afterwards Mykonos for you?
Svetlana: Another fantastic holiday with my boys! It was a bit tiring with lots of sleepless nights, but I just love to get nicely exhausted. I am a true sex queen [laughs].
What were the highlights?
I think Gay Disneyland [Barcelona’s Waterpark]. While the gay boys were watching the fireworks, I enjoyed watching them. Walking slowly away from the pool and into the crowd, I melted myself in those happy faces hugging each other. I watched the beautiful fireworks in their eyes and realised that they are my fireworks! At this moment, I wished that their parents had a chance to see them, how beautiful their sons are with all that gay love they carry on, a love that is considered wrong in many parts of the world.
Your gay boys are like your family. How did that happen?
I think our mutual love put us together and we clicked. We started to build a small union that later we called a family. I’ve been traveling a lot and wherever I go I meet new guys and introduce my guys to them. With time, our circle becomes bigger and we enjoy doing many things together whether it be a gay ski week, a gay film festival, or just a night partying out with a sexy after-party at mine.
Not just anyone can join your family, though. There is a vetting process, right?
It’s not exactly choosing some new great stallions into my stable [laughs]. New guys should like our group and the spirit I’ve
I was stunned seeing two gorgeous, topless men kissing each other so passionately. That night changed my life. I become obsessed. I wanted to know everything about these fabulous creatures – men who can love their own kind.
created. Everyone in my family is very special and unique. Some boys come and go but the best of us always stay. This is life!
Why do you love gay men so much? Or is it just certain types of gay men?
I discovered gay men back in 2002, on the night of March 15th, in London at Club Coliseum. The security guy hesitated to let me in, seeing me barely covered with two tiny pieces of what was called a skirt and a top [laughs]. All I knew was that the music was good down there with zero acknowledgement of what the word “gay” actually stood for. Hard to believe it now!
As soon as I walked into the club I was stunned at seeing the first kiss, I mean, watching it was magic: two gorgeous, topless men kissing each other so passionately. That night changed my entire life. I become obsessed and wanted to know everything about these fabulous creatures called gay men – men who can love their own kind.
I don’t want to sound tasteless, as I love all types of fit, happy and healthy gays, but if I was a gay guy, I might have gone for a certain type [laughs]. It is a big privilege to be me, a girl who has a small harem like Scheherazade [legendary Persian queen] and her 40 stallions she loves letting into the wild. I love my own created fairy tale and for 11 years I’ve lived in it.
You claim to have had 300 orgasms in Barcelona and Mykonos. What’s your secret?
I truly enjoy watching gay men having sex, playing around and feeling good about it. I just soak myself in their joy and happiness. Oops, she cums again [laughs]! I am sure everyone would like to know if I have sex with gay guys. Well, as Mary Poppins said, “Anything can happen if you let it” but, trust me, that is not my intention!
You’re attitude and honesty are remarkable. I expect there are many other things about you that might surprise DNA readers?
I was privileged, last year, to have 19 amazing “virgin” gay guys who decided, at least once in their lifetime, to try it with a woman. I do not want to scare the readers of DNA, as everything that happens is far from my personal initiative! I would rather turn a straight guy gay than visa versa. Also, apart from hosting the Contact Room [the dark room] for Lovechild by Alex Erfan in London, I was in several gay films including gay porn with Alphamale Media: Out On The Con and Dirty Bent Bastards by the talented director Maxwell Barber. Also, when I graduated as an international hotel manager at Thames Valley University, our house was too small to host my parties with so many guests, mainly gay guys, so I asked my friends who were the owners of the Sweatbox in London to use their sauna for my party. When the owner saw all my guests that night, he offered me a job as a hostess. That’s how I got employed at the gay sauna straight after my graduation – hunger@Sweatbox. We used to call it “Svetbox”._
You’re planning to come to Sydney for Mardi Gras. Any message for Australia’s gay boys who might want to party with you?
Yes, I am bringing my gay family to Oz next year! Join the party if it’s your cup of tea. Yes, Svetlana is cumming!!!”