Dear Sexpert… I read your article Nice Guys Finish Last in Best Health magazine in which you clarify that premature ejaculation is the act of the man orgasming sooner than he or his partner wants. You stated most cases of premature ejaculation are psychological, the result of a man masturbating so often in the past in such a way so as to train his mind to rush through the sexual cycle out of fear of being caught by somebody walking in on him… Clive Williams. You’ve written to the wrong magazine, Clive, but we are RAPT. What a good sport. I believe Aussie Rules is a welcoming sport for all people. It is great and courageous for Jason Ball to publicly out himself as a gay Aussie Rules player, but he is not the first one to do so at “any” level of the game (as claimed in One For The Team [DNA #171]). I have met many out players and umpires in amateur adult leagues across Australia. I’ve also met many guys who like a kick and a fiddle but don’t feel the need to come out to their whole team, and I respect both decisions. If a professional player wants to come out, that’s great. But if they don’t, that’s fine too and we should respect that. C PiggottMcKellar, Brisbane, Queensland. We hear you! A magazine that listens to its readers, how refreshing! I emailed after seeing Calum Winsor in the Swimwear edition, asking to see more. So when I opened this month’s edition and found him spread across 10 pages [ Physique Pictoral, DNA #171], I was extremely grateful. Thanks again for the interesting articles, great photos and for listening to your readers! Steve, Sydney, NSW.