YOUR BEST SEX MOVE EVER

Meet our new sex colum­nist, Cameron McCool. He’ll be bring­ing us his best sex moves ev­ery month and, to kick off… how tops can make bot­toms shoot their load, hands-free. Do try this at home!

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This month, colum­nist and “sex-pert” Cameron McCool ex­plains how tops can bring their bot­toms to a mind­blow­ing hands-free or­gasm. Do try this at home.

The first time I came hands-free while bot­tom­ing, two things were run­ning through my mind. First, a wor­ri­some fear that I was go­ing to pee my­self while some­one was top­ping me. And, im­me­di­ately af­ter I shot a huge load onto the head­board with­out once touch­ing my dick, shock and body-numb­ing amaze­ment.

As soon as I re­alised what had just hap­pened, I wanted to do it again. And again. And again.

In an at­tempt to recre­ate that ex­pe­ri­ence, I’ve re­flected on (and jacked off to the mem­ory of) that sex­ual en­counter many times since. That par­tic­u­lar ex­pe­ri­ence was so good be­cause it caught me com­pletely by sur­prise.

Un­less you’re a vir­gin, you’ll know that sex isn’t al­ways guar­an­teed to be “good”. This can be true when you’re hav­ing sex with your life part­ner, but it’s es­pe­cially true for first-time ran­dom hook-ups.

Some­times the chem­istry just isn’t there; he doesn’t re­ally look like his pro­file photo, maybe he’s a ter­ri­ble kisser, the douche isn’t per­fect, the noises aren’t to your lik­ing… the list of rea­sons why sex can suck is end­less.

But this time. Holy fuck. The kiss­ing was good. The fore­play was good. The un­cut 8-inch dick in my ass was fan­tas­tic. So, when my Grindr top-in­shin­ing-ar­mour, Mike, said, “Roll over onto your back and put this pil­low un­der your ass,” I wasn’t go­ing to stop and ask why, even when I was ex­tra con­fused by what he did next.

In­stead of grab­bing my an­kles and putting them on his shoul­ders, Mike bent my legs and pushed my knees to­wards my shoul­ders – fold­ing me like hu­man sex origami or a pa­tio chair. In this po­si­tion, my puck­er­ing bum hole was an­gled up and ex­posed. But be­fore he put his dick any­where near me, Mike had an­other step in the process.

He grabbed me around the shoul­ders and pulled him­self down on top of me – his body weight push­ing my hole up to­wards his cock and press­ing my knees flat onto my chest. The way his body dom­i­nated mine in the body hug felt in­cred­i­ble. The ex­tra pres­sure also an­gled my bum up just that lit­tle bit higher.

Once ev­ery­thing was in po­si­tion, Mike stared di­rectly into my eyes and started to fuck. It took just one stroke for my eyes to widen. I must have looked like a deer in the head­lights. He laughed and asked, “Feel good?”

I had no words.

I’d been fucked on my back be­fore, but this was a thou­sand times bet­ter. Ev­ery time Mike’s dick slide in­side me, the an­gle was per­fectly po­si­tioned for his cock to massage my prostate.

It took less than five min­utes be­fore I came harder than a teenage vir­gin get­ting laid for the first time. When the body shock fi­nally wore off, all I could think of was jump­ing back on Mike’s dick and do­ing it again.

My first hands-free or­gasm hap­pened at a time in my life when I iden­ti­fied as a “rav­en­ous bot­tom”. These days I con­sider my­self a “mostly top.” So, I’ve had the chance to ex­per­i­ment with this move on many bot­toms. Three of them have cum in­vol­un­tar­ily, so I can con­firm it works. And it makes you look like a to­tal fuck­ing pro.

There’s a lot go­ing on with this sex move, so if you’re go­ing to try it, here’s some ad­vice on get­ting right.

Don’t start this po­si­tion with any of that jack­ham­mer bull­shit. This one’s all about rhythm and style.

1. THE “BEAR HUG” IS IM­POR­TANT

Bear hug­ging your part­ner while you fuck them in this po­si­tion achieves three things. First, it com­pletely dom­i­nates the bot­tom (pro­vid­ing men­tal and phys­i­cal stim­u­la­tion). Sec­ond, it puts the top in con­trol of the an­gle at which his dick hits the bot­tom’s prostate. You won’t be able to bring the bot­tom to or­gasm if you don’t get this part right. Third, it stops the bot­tom from be­ing able to play with his dick dur­ing the fuck­ing (in­creas­ing the chances he’ll cum hands-free).

2. YOU NEED TO MASSAGE THE PROSTATE

Don’t start this po­si­tion with any of that jack­ham­mer bull­shit. This one’s all about rhythm and style. Start with a round of deep, slow fuck­ing. With ev­ery stroke, aim the head of your dick squarely at the prostate, and then slide the rest of your shaft in. You’ll know that it’s work­ing by the wide-eyed look on the bot­tom’s face. You know, the one that says, “Oh my God this feels so good. What the fuck is go­ing on? Stop. But ac­tu­ally don’t you dare stop.”

3. BUILD UP TO FAST AND HARD

Once the bot­tom is warmed up and en­joy­ing hav­ing his prostate played with, it’s time to give it a pound­ing. So, have at it. Just re­mem­ber to not let go of your bear hug on the bot­tom. For your dick to keep hit­ting the sweet spot and make your bot­tom cum with­out touch­ing him­self, you need to keep the bot­tom’s knees pressed into his shoul­ders.

4. THE BOT­TOM MAY WANT TO GIVE UP TOO SOON. HERE’S WHY.

More than a few bot­toms I’ve tried this with have backed out right be­fore the pay off. And the rea­son for this is sim­ple: if the bot­tom is un­fa­mil­iar with the sen­sa­tion of prostate stim­u­la­tion, he may mis­take the build up of plea­sure for a less pleas­ant feel­ing. In other words: over stim­u­lat­ing the prostate in this po­si­tion makes the bot­tom feel like he’s go­ing to pee him­self.

It’s re­ally hard to stop mid-fuck and ex­plain the me­chan­ics of this move with­out killing the mood. If you see a look of ter­ror creep onto his face, a quick, “It’s okay. I wanna see you cum,” while you hard fuck them to or­gasm can usu­ally make the bot­tom feel safe enough to let go and blow a hands-free load. Of course, if they in­sist that you stop: stop. Con­sen­sual sex is the best sex.

5. PRO TIP: EX­PE­RI­ENCE THIS MOVE AS A BOT­TOM

Un­less you’re staunchly op­posed it, it’s worth ex­pe­ri­enc­ing this sex move as a bot­tom. Hav­ing the move done to me in­creased my un­der­stand­ing and my abil­ity to do it to oth­ers. My ad­vice: go find a good flip-fuck part­ner, douche thor­oughly, and hop to it.

PHO­TOG­RA­PHY JOSEPH VUMBACO OF JOEE VEE PHO­TOG­RA­PHY IN­STA: @JOEEVEEPHO­TOGRAPHY MOD­ELS JOSHUA AND AJ

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