YOUR BEST SEX MOVE EVER
Meet our new sex columnist, Cameron McCool. He’ll be bringing us his best sex moves every month and, to kick off… how tops can make bottoms shoot their load, hands-free. Do try this at home!
This month, columnist and “sex-pert” Cameron McCool explains how tops can bring their bottoms to a mindblowing hands-free orgasm. Do try this at home.
The first time I came hands-free while bottoming, two things were running through my mind. First, a worrisome fear that I was going to pee myself while someone was topping me. And, immediately after I shot a huge load onto the headboard without once touching my dick, shock and body-numbing amazement.
As soon as I realised what had just happened, I wanted to do it again. And again. And again.
In an attempt to recreate that experience, I’ve reflected on (and jacked off to the memory of) that sexual encounter many times since. That particular experience was so good because it caught me completely by surprise.
Unless you’re a virgin, you’ll know that sex isn’t always guaranteed to be “good”. This can be true when you’re having sex with your life partner, but it’s especially true for first-time random hook-ups.
Sometimes the chemistry just isn’t there; he doesn’t really look like his profile photo, maybe he’s a terrible kisser, the douche isn’t perfect, the noises aren’t to your liking… the list of reasons why sex can suck is endless.
But this time. Holy fuck. The kissing was good. The foreplay was good. The uncut 8-inch dick in my ass was fantastic. So, when my Grindr top-inshining-armour, Mike, said, “Roll over onto your back and put this pillow under your ass,” I wasn’t going to stop and ask why, even when I was extra confused by what he did next.
Instead of grabbing my ankles and putting them on his shoulders, Mike bent my legs and pushed my knees towards my shoulders – folding me like human sex origami or a patio chair. In this position, my puckering bum hole was angled up and exposed. But before he put his dick anywhere near me, Mike had another step in the process.
He grabbed me around the shoulders and pulled himself down on top of me – his body weight pushing my hole up towards his cock and pressing my knees flat onto my chest. The way his body dominated mine in the body hug felt incredible. The extra pressure also angled my bum up just that little bit higher.
Once everything was in position, Mike stared directly into my eyes and started to fuck. It took just one stroke for my eyes to widen. I must have looked like a deer in the headlights. He laughed and asked, “Feel good?”
I had no words.
I’d been fucked on my back before, but this was a thousand times better. Every time Mike’s dick slide inside me, the angle was perfectly positioned for his cock to massage my prostate.
It took less than five minutes before I came harder than a teenage virgin getting laid for the first time. When the body shock finally wore off, all I could think of was jumping back on Mike’s dick and doing it again.
My first hands-free orgasm happened at a time in my life when I identified as a “ravenous bottom”. These days I consider myself a “mostly top.” So, I’ve had the chance to experiment with this move on many bottoms. Three of them have cum involuntarily, so I can confirm it works. And it makes you look like a total fucking pro.
There’s a lot going on with this sex move, so if you’re going to try it, here’s some advice on getting right.
Don’t start this position with any of that jackhammer bullshit. This one’s all about rhythm and style.
1. THE “BEAR HUG” IS IMPORTANT
Bear hugging your partner while you fuck them in this position achieves three things. First, it completely dominates the bottom (providing mental and physical stimulation). Second, it puts the top in control of the angle at which his dick hits the bottom’s prostate. You won’t be able to bring the bottom to orgasm if you don’t get this part right. Third, it stops the bottom from being able to play with his dick during the fucking (increasing the chances he’ll cum hands-free).
2. YOU NEED TO MASSAGE THE PROSTATE
Don’t start this position with any of that jackhammer bullshit. This one’s all about rhythm and style. Start with a round of deep, slow fucking. With every stroke, aim the head of your dick squarely at the prostate, and then slide the rest of your shaft in. You’ll know that it’s working by the wide-eyed look on the bottom’s face. You know, the one that says, “Oh my God this feels so good. What the fuck is going on? Stop. But actually don’t you dare stop.”
3. BUILD UP TO FAST AND HARD
Once the bottom is warmed up and enjoying having his prostate played with, it’s time to give it a pounding. So, have at it. Just remember to not let go of your bear hug on the bottom. For your dick to keep hitting the sweet spot and make your bottom cum without touching himself, you need to keep the bottom’s knees pressed into his shoulders.
4. THE BOTTOM MAY WANT TO GIVE UP TOO SOON. HERE’S WHY.
More than a few bottoms I’ve tried this with have backed out right before the pay off. And the reason for this is simple: if the bottom is unfamiliar with the sensation of prostate stimulation, he may mistake the build up of pleasure for a less pleasant feeling. In other words: over stimulating the prostate in this position makes the bottom feel like he’s going to pee himself.
It’s really hard to stop mid-fuck and explain the mechanics of this move without killing the mood. If you see a look of terror creep onto his face, a quick, “It’s okay. I wanna see you cum,” while you hard fuck them to orgasm can usually make the bottom feel safe enough to let go and blow a hands-free load. Of course, if they insist that you stop: stop. Consensual sex is the best sex.
5. PRO TIP: EXPERIENCE THIS MOVE AS A BOTTOM
Unless you’re staunchly opposed it, it’s worth experiencing this sex move as a bottom. Having the move done to me increased my understanding and my ability to do it to others. My advice: go find a good flip-fuck partner, douche thoroughly, and hop to it.