HOW TO BE THE HOTTEST TOP IN TOWN
If you spend time on the top bunk, here’s a bunch of moves to take your reputation into the top-osphere!
If you spend time on the top bunk, here’s a bunch of moves to take your reputation into the top-osphere!
LET’S FACE IT: a lot of tops don’t know how to fuck. Even worse, many don’t seem to care about upgrading their sexual skillset. But they should, because when a top is great in bed, every willing bottom wants to get fucked by him, again and again.
MAKING THE MAGIC HAPPEN
Average tops are only interested in getting themselves off. Great tops derive pleasure from getting the bottom off. If you fall into the second category, you win at sex every single time.
When your pleasure comes from getting someone else off, your sexual adventures will go into the next dimension. You’ll have a blast making your partners cum, and they’ll reciprocate by being the best goddamn bottom you’ve ever taken to Pound Town.
On the flipside, if you’re just there to cum and run, if you treat your bottom like he’s just a dick receptacle, you won’t get a lot in return, and shouldn’t be surprised if guys stop returning your booty calls.
Case in point: I was once fucked by a top who didn’t bother to make me cum. I let him fuck me a second time and, again, he was content to blow a load and not bother to help me orgasm. When the guy called for a third helping, the words of the great Samantha Jones came to mind: “Fuck me badly once, shame on you. Fuck me badly twice, shame on me.” Needless to say, there was no round three.
ENTRY BY INVITATION ONLY
If you throw a cake into the oven before the ingredients are fully mixed, the cake turns out like shit. Same goes for your sexual encounters. If you shove your dick inside a bottom before they’re warmed up, it won’t go well.
So when is the right time to penetrate, exactly? Read the room. It’s all in the signs. Are the bottom’s eyes rolling back in his head? Is
he moaning when you whisper in his ear? Is he responding positively to your finger/tongue/ cock playing lightly on his hole? His mood should be eager but relaxed.
And don’t forget that you can just ask him! You’ve seen this done in porn, when the top teases the bottom by saying, “You want this, don’t you?” If he does, he’ll tell you. If he’s not ready, he’ll likely take the lead with a bit more foreplay.
UNLOCKING THE PLEASURE PALACE
Rimming is a quick way to prime a bottom for penetration. But what makes a rim job great? Variety. Don’t just give his hole a light kiss and call it a day. Shove your tongue deep inside. Blow on the hole. Spread his cheeks and rub your stubble down his butt crack. Gently bite his ass. If the bottom can’t guess where you (or your tongue) will be going next, you’ll heighten his ecstasy tenfold.
His butt hole is alive with nerve endings and muscles which, when stimulated expertly, will increase his arousal and send signals to his brain that more stimulation in that particular location would be a very good thing.
A thorough, playful, inventive rimming that focuses on his pleasure lets your partner know that you mean business, that you’re the one in charge and that having you slide your cock into him would be a privilege and pleasure.
LEAVE THE JACKHAMMER AT HOME
There’s a time and a place for pounding. It’s usually well into the experience when the bottom begs you to fuck him harder. But until you reach that point, slow the fuck down, champ!
His sphincter is going to be tight at first, so warm it up with tons of foreplay (see above). And, for the love of good sex, change speeds occasionally. Switching things up will make the bottom think you fuck like a pro, and it can also help you from climaxing too quickly. Win-win.
And, like a good architect or cinematographer, experiment with your angles. Your partner not a piece of Ikea furniture. There’s more than one way tab A can go into slot A. When you slow it down, also adjust your angle of entry. Some will work better than others. The two of you will have fun finding out which ones are the funnest!
DON’T CUM TIL THE BOTTOM CUMS
Once you cum, it’s hard to muster the enthusiasm to keep pleasuring your partner. Get into the habit of maintaining your hard-on until the bottom has cum. If you can, time it so that you cum together.
If you struggle with this, just be open about it. Take a break while you’re fucking. Pull out and make out. Mini breaks will help you regain your cum-posure and prolong the session.
Your second orgasm in an encounter can often by the bigger and more intense. If you’ve just met and the chemistry is going crazy between you, perhaps go at it hammer and tongs and get the first climax out of the way. Then, after a little rest, resume and enjoy the slower build of the second cuming. But if you came first the first time, be a gentleman and make sure he cums first on the second. As I said earlier, your pleasure should be his.
DOUBLE STIMULATION. TRIPLE STIMULATION.
This sex move works every time. While you’re fucking a bottom on his back, spit into your hand and stimulate the head of his dick.
Want to raise the stakes even further? Lean in and stimulate his nipple with your tongue.
And here’s the triple threat: while fucking him, stimulate his cock with one hand and his nipples with the other. Do it right and you’ll send him into sensory overload.
TURN UP THE JETS WITH INTIMACY
Ever stared deep into someone’s eyes while you’re deep inside their butt? It heightens every other sensation during sex. Flip the bottom onto his back, grab his ankles, and slide in and out, nice and deep. While you’re doing it, maintain eye contact and enjoy the intensity.
BEAR HUG HIM FROM BEHIND
For bottoms, few things are hotter than relinquishing control to a great top. Here’s one way to go about it. Put the bottom on his stomach and slide inside. Then, wrap your arms around his body and hug him tight. Enjoy deep, long thrusts. Lick his neck and ear. He’ll be writhing and squirming on your cock in no time.