BEYOND MISSIONARY
A harsh truth: sex with the same person becomes ho-hum over time. Try these sex positions to improve your repertoire and spice things up.
Sex with the same person becomes ho-hum over time. Improve your repertoire.
RIMMING WITH A TWIST
Get your partner on his hands and knees and rim him from behind. While you’re there, don’t just focus on his butthole. Pull his hard cock back and give it a blow job. Lick the entire length of his rear – from the tip of his dick, along his shaft and balls, and finish in his hole. Lick the back of his legs and bite his ass cheeks.
The more you change things up, the more you’ll keep him guessing and increase the intensity of this rim job.
THE BEND AND SNAP
Tops, put your partner on his stomach. Force his legs wide with your knees and slide your cock inside him. Then, grab his arms and pull them towards you – his back should arch up, and you should basically have him immobilised in that position while you take him to Pound Town.
It’s a hot position for two reasons. First, it allows for some hot, deep penetration. And second, it’s a very dominant position for the top. So, if your bottom gets off on being submissive, then you’ll be fucking his mind as much as you’re fucking his butthole.
THE HOUSE OF FLYING PENISES
So, your partner is lying on his stomach and you’re fucking him from behind. That’s hot. Now, take it up a notch. Reach down and spread his ass cheeks with your hands. Then, raise up on your toes like you’re about to do a push-up and start slamming your cock into his butt.
Again, a sexy variation on an old favourite. If your abs feel tight the next day, like you’ve done a workout, good. You have!
RAISE ’EM UP… WAY UP!
Everyone knows that putting a pillow under a bottom’s butt can make for better fucking.
What few people know is that height matters. Try throwing a second pillow into the mix and further raising the height of the bottom’s bottom. Your dick will have a way better chance of stimulating his prostate. Play around with the height here. You’ll know you’ve hit the jackpot when you see the ecstatic change in the bottom’s facial expression! You might even make him cum hands-free.
MULTIPLE STIMULATION STATION
The goal here is to simultaneously stimulate your partner in more ways than one. For example, when you’re going down on him, don’t just stimulate his cock with your mouth, spit on your finger and play with his butthole while you’re at it.
If you’re fucking in the missionary position, put the bottom’s legs up towards his ears (basically fold him into a pretzel). Then, spit on your hand and stimulate the head of his dick. Then, lean over and lick his nipples or armpits. That’s three different areas of stimulation for the price of one sex position.
The reason multiple stimulation is so hot is because we aren’t used to being played with in more than one area. (I think we aren’t used to this because so few people bother to actually try to do this.) If you can stimulate someone’s body simultaneously in two different spots, amazing. Three spots, you’re a legend, and you’ll have your sex partner’s eyes rolling back in his head in no time.
If you’re not a yogi and flexibility is an issue, you can use toys to achieve the same result.
VERTICAL 69
You’ve seen this in porn, now try it at home. This is a regular 69, only vertical. Sit on the couch so your back is propped up and have your partner back his butt up into your face. Depending on how tall he is, you should be able to eat him out, lick his balls or give them a deep throat blow job while he bends forwards and goes down on your dick. Win win!