Bae not OK
I am 13 and I was secretly dating a guy who is 21, but was 20 at the time. I didn’t love him at first, but now I really miss him. Once my mum saw us, my parents told him that if he communicates with me they will call the police on him. I really love him and would do anything to get him back. How can I get him back – or can I?
This is tough, but your parents are right. You shouldn’t get him back. If he loves you and has your best interests at heart, he will wait until you are legally old enough to make adult decisions. Despite what you think or feel, legally you are a minor. The law says feeling mature is not good enough. You have to be mature in reality. Caring for him means having nothing to do with him until you are of age. He needs to stay away. If he doesn’t, he could end up in prison.