My bestie has been dating this guy for about 10 months and we are all really close and talk out of school on Snapchat. Recently, while talking to her boyfriend, he asked me for nudes. After finally giving in, I sent him a picture of my breasts. We now talk every day, sending each other pictures, and talk about sex with each other. Other than our Snapchat relationship, nothing physical is happening and my best friend is completely clueless as to what we are doing. Is this a bad thing?
Yes, this is a bad thing, on two levels. On no planet that I know of is it OK for you to be sending nude selfies to your bestie’s boyfriend. How would you feel if she did this to you? Putting aside the morality of going behind your bestie’s back, both of you are actually in breach of the law. He has solicited child pornography and you have manufactured and distributed it. Apart from the reputational damage, you could be facing heavy penalties. This is not harmless fun, you could end up stuffing up your futures.