Why are guys so terrible at expressing their emotions? Do they ever cry to their mates?
The stigma about guys needing to hide and bury their emotions is changing, I think. We’re all emotional beings and of course we cry. You know you’ve got a good bro if you can have a cry together!
I usually get my friends to help me with texts to the guys I like, but do guys ever do the same thing?
Absolutely! I’ve always asked my friends to help me send texts. Sometimes I just don’t know what to say or I’m scared I’ll say the wrong thing. I always figured that at least if I got rejected I’d have my friends to help me – and to blame of course! ;)
I have a massive crush on a guy at school and it’s the first person I’ve felt this way about. Do I just tell him? Or do I wait for the secret to make its way around the school and see what he does? Help!
Oh, I feel you! I’ve always been super scared of even saying hello to my crush and it’s made me overthink the situation so many times. There’s no better feeling than confronting your fears, building up the courage and just going for it. You’ll thank yourself later!
How do you distinguish if a guy is being flirty or just friendly? Me and my crush have a secret handshake, but he does them with everyone!
He could just have a friendly personality, so speak up and distinguish if it’s special between you two or just mates. It might sound terrifying, but he’ll respect the hell out of you for being brave and asking. And who knows, maybe having the guts to ask will put you on his radar as more than friends – if you weren’t already!
“The stigma about guys needing to hide their emotions is changing. Of course we cry!”