WHAT I CANNOT CONTROL IS
All that is happening in the context
Other people’s mindset
If others regulate their state
If others smile
Others response to what is going on
How much effort others put on doing their best
How others express their needs & desires
Whether other people explore other perspectives
How people treat each other
Whether others ask for help/support
What people tell themselves is happening
Whether others are grateful
What people believe about me
Other people’s boundaries
If others are honest & keep their word
If others like me