THE WOMEN WHO HAVE RECEIVED A NEW FACE FACE!

Thanks to medical advances, Andy isn‘t the only person to have received a new face. Connie Culp, who was shot by her husband in 2004, was the first recipient of a face transplant in the US. Fellow American Charla Nash, who was attacked by a chimp in 2009,

Lilly Ross had never been as nervous as she was the day she met Andy Sandness. As she clutched her son Leonard’s hand, she was afraid about how she would feel to see her husband’s face again – except this wasn’t a reunion between two past loves.

Lilly’s beloved husband Rudy was dead, and Andy was the man who had battled back from the brink of death to be given an incredible gift – Rudy’s transplanted face.

‘I felt incredibly proud,’ an emotional Lilly, 21, tells New Idea of the moment she and Andy met in October 2017.

‘I’d been so nervous waiting for that day, because I felt it would be so hard to see Rudy’s face on someone else.

‘But it didn’t look completely like my Rudy because the eyes and cheekbones were different.

‘I immediately felt a deep sense of closure that I had been missing in my life.

‘I was happy that Rudy had helped Andy in such a positive way – it’s a legacy for our son Leonard.’

This incredible story began two days before Christmas in 2006.

Andy, then 21, had reached a breaking point in his life and had been feeling ‘super depressed’ for days.

He grabbed a rifle from his closet and shot himself under the chin.

Immediately, he knew he had made a terrible mistake and he pleaded with a police friend who had come to help, saying: ‘I don’t want to die.’

The attempted suicide left Andy with just two teeth, no lips, a shattered face and little vision in his left eye.

He spent years hidden from the world, ashamed of his appearance.

Surgeons tried to rebuild his face, but it left him with a tiny mouth and his prosthetic nose kept falling off – so he retreated.

Meanwhile, surgeons at the world-famous Mayo Clinic in Minnesota had been developing face transplants.

In January 2016, Andy’s name was added to the transplant waiting list.

Five months later in June, leading surgeon Dr Samir Mardini called Andy to say that a potential donor had been found – it was Lilly’s husband Calen ‘Rudy’ Ross.

Ten years after Andy tried to kill himself, Rudy Ross, then 21, tragically did the same while Lilly was eight months pregnant with their son Leonard, now 17 months old.

‘I met Rudy when we were both at high school together,’ Lilly, from Minnesota, recalls.

‘He was a year older than me and I fell quickly in love with him.

‘He was outgoing, funny, and sometimes just weird.

‘He was sweet, caring and kind, and he always wanted a family.

‘We were married in October 2013 and we were very happy.’

But despite their joy, Lilly says there were times when Rudy could be very down and depressed – but he hid it well, and the good times seemed to outweigh the bad.

When Lilly fell pregnant, she said the couple were in a good place and looking forward to the birth of their first child.

So when Rudy took his own life in June 2016, it was a terrible shock for his bride.

‘I still find it incredibly hard to talk about losing Rudy,’ Lilly admits. ‘We were buying baby stuff for Leonard and I thought everything was going great.

‘It’s still hard to deal with honestly. And the only reason I carried on was because I had