READER Q&A

QMy partner of 10 years, Kym, passed away nine weeks ago from tongue cancer. I do not know if I should stay in Adelaide in the hopes of ever reconciling with my ex, or if I should move to reside closer to family in Victoria? – SARAH

DEAR SARAH,

Your gorgeous partner Kym is certainly a very cheeky character. He has a huge smile on his face and wants me to tell you that you were right. Yes, life does exist after we leave this world. He is telling me you can now say: “I told you so!”

I feel Kym was someone who was a bit naughty and didn’t always look after himself. He is telling me he should have listened to you more and understands all you were trying to do was to look after him.

He is sorry he could be so stubborn. He didn’t tell you how much he truly does love you, so he is asking me to let you know. I feel Kym could be a man of few words, he is telling me he would show you he loved you by his actions. He is grateful for you being patient with him. Kym is telling me it is now your time to enjoy the rest of your life. He is sorry to have left you so soon.

I see you staying in South Australia for the time being. I do see the pull to be with family. Kym is saying remember the reason you moved away from them in the first place. I do see there is unfinished business you need to sort out before you decide on the big move.

I do see you making contact with your ex and you’ll get the closure you need. You are very intuitive. Always follow your gut, as it will rarely be wrong.

I see you have sacrificed your happiness in order to make others happy. Now it’s your turn. Focus on your dreams and make them become a reality.