What would you do?

Got a problem? Let that’s life! readers help! Here’s what they had to say about this week’s dilemma

Ask for change

Explain to the eldest that her sister needs to study for her HSC (just like she had to) and she needs some peace and quiet to do so. The eldest needs to give her some space. Also the youngest needs to leave her sister alone. If they are in separate rooms, if the doors are shut, just leave each other alone.

Joanne Sharrad, Aberfoyle Park, SA

Upskill them

Start by sending your daughters on a conflict management short course. They’re available through TAFEs, some unis and other education providers. It won’t address all of the issues but it would give both daughters some strategies for dealing with disagreements.

Heather White, Melbourne, Vic

Lay down the law

Set house rules. Respect each other’s belongings and personal space. Endeavour to have enjoyable family time, such as a movie and pizza night. It will take time but it will happen. It’s your home and your children should have respect for you and cut it out.

Nadine Abrahams, Adelaide, SA

Hang in there

Welcome to my world! And probably 90 per cent of other parents of teens. Drives me mad too but persevere, only a few more years and maybe you will get some peace when they leave home.

Sharon Matthews, Christchurch, NZ