The Australian Women's Weekly

Gratitude therapy

- Linda Blair is a clinical psychologi­st and the author of The Key To Calm, published by Hodder & Stoughton.

If the past year was all about mindfulnes­s, now the latest psychother­apy craze to gather momentum is gratitude therapy. By encouragin­g people to feel grateful for what they already have – rather than always wanting something more and better – proponents of this approach say gratitude therapy will help individual­s feel better about their lives and less anxious generally. Gratitude therapy is unusual because you can try it on your own, without enlisting a therapist to guide you.

Yet is this something new or simply more of the same with a different label?

✽✽✽✽✽ The idea of using “talking therapy” to overcome emotional disorders was introduced by Sigmund Freud in 1886, when he began offering a technique he called psychoanal­ysis. Freud believed that all psychologi­cal disorders are rooted in early childhood traumas and the best way to uncover these is to ask patients to relax and recount whatever comes into their minds. He believed they would then “transfer” feelings about people in their past on to the therapist and work through the issues.

Psychoanal­ysis was the predominan­t mind cure until the 1950s, when the attention turned to how we learn and behave. The resulting method, called behaviour therapy, was then based on the idea that all behaviour is learnt and that, therefore, it can be “unlearnt” or overlaid with newer, more adaptive ways of behaving.

Soon, however, it became obvious that behaviour change alone wasn’t enough. Many patients remained distressed. Psychologi­sts then turned their attention to our thought patterns and began applying the techniques of behaviour therapy to change attitudes and beliefs. This new therapy came to be known as cognitive behaviour therapy, or CBT. Since the introducti­on of CBT in the late 1960s, other methods have been created, such as acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), dialectica­l behaviour therapy (DBT), mindfulnes­s-based cognitive therapy (MBCT), compassion-focused therapy (CFT) and now gratitude therapy.

They are all based on CBT principles, but some borrow ideas from psychoanal­ysis as well. Each one targets a particular type of psychologi­cal disorder, or emphasises particular emotions. Yet do they actually represent anything new?

I think not. All the newer therapies are based on the idea that the way we think and behave strongly determines how we feel, although each therapy has its own specific target. For example, CFT aims to eliminate shame and self-criticism; ACT encourages the acceptance of painful feelings and aspects of our lives we can’t control; and gratitude therapy stresses satisfacti­on with the status quo.

In my opinion, none of them offers anything radically different. They simply emphasise different aspects of good psychologi­cal health. After all, isn’t it a good idea for everyone to cultivate attributes such as gratitude, compassion and mindfulnes­s, whether they are undergoing therapy or not? If you wish to undergo psychother­apy, learn about the types on offer so you can decide which one appeals most. In the long run, however, you’ll have the greatest chance of benefiting from the therapy if you choose a therapist you can trust and work well with.

Mindfulnes­s is over and the new therapy buzzword is gratitude – being thankful for what we have. Yet is this really a new breakthrou­gh or just a rehash of old ideas? Linda Blair unpicks the psychobabb­le. “Gratitude therapy stresses satisfacti­on with the status quo.”

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