A TOUCH OF FROST: HOMELESSNESS TO GIVING WOMEN HOPE
GLEN-MARIE Frost has lived the nightmare and now she is on a mission to share her experience of homelessness to help other women.
Last week she was named as Sydney’s Woman of the Year in recognition for her work in showcasing this unseen and growing dilemma in our society.
During her corporate life she was a frequent visitor to the Gold Coast, seen at glamorous parties and openings, so it was quite a shock for us to read she had been homeless.
“My story is quite typical,” she explained. “I had health issues and couldn’t travel to fulfil my obligations to clients and suddenly I had no income.
“Very quickly I couldn’t afford my rent and then became homeless. I was so angry with myself that I hadn’t prepared for my security and like many women, didn’t think about the future.
“I moved to the Southern Highlands to stay with friends. However, you are always aware that you have to move and not outstay your welcome.”
While living there Glen-marie obtained her real estate and civil celebrant licences, realising that a woman in her 60s is not employable.
When she publicly revealed her situation she was surprised by the reaction she received from other women. “Most said I was brave and generous but a few others were incredibly harsh and judgmental. But I know it is a story that needs to be told to support other women.
“Women generally don’t share their burden or complain to family and have no idea what the actual finances are. My life may have looked glamorous but I didn’t spend my income on lavish overseas trips or designer handbags and clothes — I simply wasn’t prepared if things went wrong.”
A sobering statistic — there are 149,000 homeless women now and usually you don’t see them sleeping in the street. They’re in cars, garages – the “invisible” ones.
“We as a society need to find more affordable and innovative housing solutions because it is something that affects every level of society. My hope is that women, especially younger ones, will be aware of the pitfalls and also understand that a man is not a plan. Take responsibility for your financial wellbeing.”
Happily, Glen-marie is now a civil celebrant, which she says is a joy. However, her focus remains on helping other women find a safe place to reenergise and contribute to the community again.