ROXY JACENKO & OLIVER CURTIS

There’s not much that’s private about the lives of Roxy Jacenko, 39, and Oliver Curtis, 34. When the first episode of reality series I Am Roxy aired during Channel Ten’s pilot week, the nation was given a glimpse into the couple’s relationship like never before. And now the pair – who have been married for seven years and have two children together, Pixie, 8, and Hunter, 5 – have opened up to WHO about what goes on when the cameras are turned off.

What is sexy to you both?

CURTIS Confidence. 100 per cent.

JACENKO Yeah, I think it’s confidence. It’s not really the exterior for me. That’s something you look at when you’re younger. Though I never had really a good-looking boyfriend until I met you.

CURTIS Oh burn!

JACENKO For me, because I am dominant and everyone knows that, and I have my own business and I come with my own life, the confidence – you have to be able to deal with that because not many guys have that confidence. So, that’s sexy to me. Since Oliver got out of jail, you’ve been working together. How does that affect your relationship? CURTIS She does her thing. I support her in everything she does and obviously I’ve always got her back.

JACENKO He was the only one who ever did. There were a lot of people who took from me, which was particularly not sexy. I bought a boat for a bloke and then he dumped me.

How different are you as a couple behind closed doors?

JACENKO What you see is what you get.

We bicker like this. Everyone who wants to paint this picture that they don’t bicker and don’t argue … it’s rubbish.

CURTIS We’ve got a weird relationship.

JACENKO We do. But we’re best friends. I’m very happy with that. There’s longevity in that. For me, there wasn’t longevity in having someone I’m overly obsessed with and want to be with every second of the day.

Are you ever affectionate with each other? CURTIS She’d like to say that she isn’t, but she actually is. When she comes home, of course. JACENKO Maybe if I’m drunk.

CURTIS Well, that helps. You usually do have a couple of glasses of wine.

JACENKO I am not, by any stretch, a touchy-feely person.

CURTIS No, you don’t like public displays of affection.

Confidence is sexy. It’s not really the exterior for me. Though, I never really had a good-looking boyfriendunlil (Oliver)