Bette’s tips for lasting love in Hollywood

Don’t be in each other’s faces all the time – give the other person room. Listen to each other. Compromise – and give in from time to time. “Pick your fights wisely and just mediate. Sometimes you have to say, ‘It’s not worth it. The fight is not worth it.’ ” Keep supporting each other “Don’t go from zero to 60 in two seconds. Just stay calm and try to breathe.” Don’t assign blame or diminish the other person.