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A friend has a relative who likes reading and painting, and with her birthday coming up my friend asked her husband to buy a gift from them. At her relative’s birthday dinner, she opened the gifts, and opened theirs with a surprised expression. It was a set of books containing art lessons. My friend’s husband told the woman: “I know you love reading and art, and I thought this might help!” He wasn’t exactly being complimentary! J Clancy, Fairfield, NSW