Pets

What they teach us

HAVING EMPATHY

The Th connection i we form f with ih our pets develops our sense of understanding and empathy for all walks of life. At times we might find ourselves becoming a little self-absorbed, but having a pet teaches us to think outside of ourselves and consider the feelings of others. “My dog takes me out of my own world view and makes me look through his eyes,” says Dr Lee. “When he’s crying and I don’t know why, I need to take a step back and think: ‘What’s scaring him?’” Whether they’re crying like Dr Lee’s dog Chu, whining for food or desperate for attention, our pets need us. “It’s a daily reminder of the need to consider the perspective of others,” says Dr Lee.

LEARNING ROUTINE

If you’re the disorganised type, having a pet can work wonders to develop a sense of routine. Your pet is like your own personal alarm, reminding you when they need to be fed, if they’re tired or they want to play. Dr Lee’s cat Mao keeps her in check. “Have you ever seen a cat demanding breakfast? Or have you heard a cat meowing at the door at exactly the time he/she expects you to be home?” she asks. “Cats have taught me how valuable routine is.”

STAYING ACTIVE

Looking after a pet often means getting off the couch and moving with them. Whether they want to run around in the living room, get outside to go for a walk, or even play with toys in their enclosure, our pets needing to burn some energy is a strong reminder we’ll benefit by joining them.