Germany’s Black Forest becomes sanctuary for Daesh-abused Yazidi women
The women, many of whom were sold as Daesh slaves, have since received trauma counselling for rape: Kizilhan
DONAUESCHINGEN(GERMANY): After surviving torment and rape at the hands of her Daesh captors, Nadia Murad rebuilt her life at a trauma centre in Germany’s Black Forest which became her sanctuary.
It was here alongside hundreds of other Yazidi victims of Daesh abuse and terror that Murad found her voice and started the journey that saw her honoured with this year’s Nobel Peace Prize.
Thousands of kilometres from their war-battered homes in northern Iraq’s Sinjar region, 1,100 women and children of the Kurdish-speaking minority were resettled here.
The psychologically scarred women are escaped Daesh captives who were chosen for an emergency asylum programme set up in 2014 by the state of Baden-wuerttemberg.
The women, many of whom were sold as Daesh slaves, have since received trauma counselling for rape, a taboo subject in the Middle East, under the guidance of Kurdish-german psychologist Jan Ilhan Kizilhan.
“At the beginning here it was very dificult,” said one of them, Lewiza, speaking in a monotone voice about her culture shock when she arrived three years ago.
“I was always afraid, I thought I was going to fall back into the hands of Daesh,” she said.
‘Everything was new’
The 22-year-old, who declined to reveal her full name, had to rebuild her life from scratch in this picturesque and prosperous corner of Germany near the Swiss border.
“Everything was new to me: undergoing therapy, talking to someone about my condition,” she told AFP. “But every time I speak, I feel much better.”
Sitting beside her, Kizilhan translated her Kurdish into German, a language Lewiza is studying while also training at a hotel school in the region.
It was this Turkish-born German trauma psychotherapist who has helped the women, including Murad, whom he encouraged in 2015 to address the UN Security Council. Kizilhan sought out the women who were living in refugee camps in northern Iraq under a 95 million euro ($108 million) state programme.
It has required psychologists, social workers and interpreters with special training to help those from a culture with very different conventions and sensitivities.
“The terms they use are different,” said Kizilhan, who is also training a new generation of psychologists in Iraq to address the country’s mental health crisis.
“They do not say they were raped, they say they were ‘married’ ... They do not say they suffer trauma, they say they have ‘headaches’ or ‘stomach aches’.”