The Waters Between Us

Praise for Books by Michael J. Tougias

The Finest Hours: The True Story of the U.S. Coast Guard’s Most Daring Sea Rescue (co-authored with Casey Sherman)

“A blockbuster account of tragedy at sea…gives a ‘you-are-there’ feel.”

“The Waters Between Us is a song of praise to the outdoors, an apology for boyhood misunderstandings, and a loving appreciation for a father whose grace, joy and kindness remained steadfast in the face of tragedy. Young Michael Tougias reminds me of Huck Finn, and it's great fun to accompany him on his river adventures. But even more rewarding is the compassion he has gained in hindsight. You'll be grateful to the boy, the man he became, and the father who quietly nurtured them both for this unforgettable memoir.”

“A coming of age story that everyone will enjoy because it is so well written.”—WBZ Book Club, New England’s most powerful radio station

“As if channeling Huckleberry Finn, Henry David Thoreau and James Dean, Tougias has written a funny, insightful and finally profound autobiography”—Metro West Daily News

“Tougias tells of his misadventures so amusingly that you keep turning the page to see what kind of trouble he will get into next. And the yearning for a close relationship [with his father] wends its way throughout the book. “Many of the adventures caused my father to question my sanity, and tested his patience … I was a wild kid and a magnet for trouble,” writes the author. “I learned a lot from him — not by talking but by observing.” – Martha's Vineyard Times

“When a life-altering tragedy strikes his family after an event of shared happiness, Tougias artfully weaves together memories of his father's and mother's tireless devotion. In this touching memoir, Tougias comically and poignantly describes his long struggle to reach across that gulf that separated him from all he needed to finally find peace.” – Gannett News

“Tougias’ travels encourage reflection of our own childhoods and passages while eagerly turning his pages, immersed in new adventures, lamenting only that each page turned brings us closer to his last.” – Outdoor Columnist Todd Corayer “Fish Wrap”

“Much of the books emotional power comes from Tougias success evoking his special places…” — The Cape Codder

“It’s a story with plenty of comical moments but “The Waters Between Us” also recounts a tragedy that brought a reckoning for Tougias and his family — and his father’s response to that incident gave his son a better appreciation for his dad’s values and ultimately brought the two closer.” – Daily Hampshire Gazette

“Tougias carries readers through his itchy adolescence to his restless young adulthood by skillfully balancing his comic misadventures with a deepening passion for nature as a source of joy and peace that often eludes him elsewhere.”— Country Gazette

Bestselling author Michael J. Tougias (whose 34 books include “There’s a Porcupine in My Outhouse” and co-writing “The Finest Hours”) recounts years of misadventures in the woods and on the water (both dangerous and comical) and his goal to live in a cabin and become “a mountain man.” The book also looks at a family tragedy that changed Tougias’ life, and explores his complex relationship with his father: “the journey from misunderstanding, disappointment, and hostility to love, acceptance and admiration.” -- Cape Cod Times

“More than just another outdoors book, Michael explores the complex and often challenging relationship between a father and son that any father or son can relate to. This book will make you smile, laugh and nod your head in agreement. The natural world is Michael’s place of inspiration and solace and healing and this book will take you there too.”

“I loved it! Tougias’s wonderful memoir celebrates a time before cell phones and social media cluttered our lives; when a kid could drape a fishing rod across the handlebars of his bike and find high adventure in the woods and streams around him.”

"Reading “The Waters Between Us” is like sitting down and listening to Tougias spin yarns of his sometimes harrowing (mis)adventures during his youth. Some of the predicaments are nail-biting, such as a near-death experience where he and his friend get tossed into a freezing gorge while rafting down Vermont’s Huntington River. But throughout, Tougias tells of his misadventures so amusingly that you keep turning the page to see what kind of trouble he will get into next."

“A coming of age story that everyone will enjoy because it is so well written.”

"Bestselling author Michael J. Tougias (whose 34 books include 'There’s a Porcupine in My Outhouse' and co-writing 'The Finest Hours') recounts years of misadventures in the woods and on the water (both dangerous and comical) and his goal to live in a cabin and become 'a mountain man.' The book also looks at a family tragedy that changed Tougias’ life, and explores his complex relationship with his father: 'the journey from misunderstanding, disappointment, and hostility to love, acceptance and admiration.'"

“When a life-altering tragedy strikes his family after an event of shared happiness, Tougias artfully weaves together memories of his father's and mother's tireless devotion. In this touching memoir, Tougias comically and poignantly describes his long struggle to reach across that gulf that separated him from all he needed to finally find peace.”

“Tougias’ travels encourage reflection of our own childhoods and passages while eagerly turning his pages, immersed in new adventures, lamenting only that each page turned brings us closer to his last.”

“Much of the books emotional power comes from Tougias success evoking his special places…”

“Along with his father’s love, the other constant in the boy’s life—and the thing Mr. Tougias credits with saving him from more serious trouble—is his love of the outdoors, a dynamo of fascination and adventure, a place that draws him back endlessly. Always in the background is his father, who leaves the house before anyone else is awake and labors physically for 50 or 60 hours a week, coming home too exhausted to attend his son’s games. Michael knows his father loves him but isn’t sure the man likes him, which is what he craves. As anyone who has played a part in this ancient drama knows, there’s no single moment of reconciliation. It comes with time, incrementally. And it’s not the father who changes.”

"The only task quite so fraught as a boy negotiating his relationship with his father is that of a father negotiating his relationship with his son. Three books offer variations on the eternal theme.

"In Michael Tougias’s memoir, “The Waters Between Us” (Lyons, 240 pages, $26.95), the author writes about growing up as a rambunctious boy in the 1960s, the last time parents sent their children outdoors with no instructions except not to do anything stupid and to be home by dark. Mr. Tougias usually managed the second part.

"The book is about his outdoor adventures, the troubled relationship between a “spirited” boy and his father, and the healing power of the natural world. It’s in no way a knock against Mr. Tougias as a writer to say that a photo in the book most succinctly sums up this situation. It shows young Michael in his bedroom looking at the camera as his father holds up a small bass that the boy has caught. The father, in profile, is laughing or smiling, delighting in his son’s delight. And Michael does look triumphant, even if he’s still fearful of holding the fish himself. But there’s something in his eyes—a wildness, almost a mania—that hints at the rocky road ahead. A kid with undiagnosed ADHD (it was the ’60s) who will set school records for detention? Check. A kid who confounds—seemingly tortures—his parents with his inability to follow the simplest of rules? Check. A kid who will nearly drown playing on the too-thin ice of a pond, who’ll nearly be swept out to sea in a riptide in Maine, who’ll nearly perish on a stupid run down a raging river in a kid’s rubber raft? Check, check and check.

"Along with his father’s love, the other constant in the boy’s life—and the thing Mr. Tougias credits with saving him from more serious trouble—is his love of the outdoors, a dynamo of fascination and adventure, a place that draws him back endlessly. Always in the background is his father, who leaves the house before anyone else is awake and labors physically for 50 or 60 hours a week, coming home too exhausted to attend his son’s games. Michael knows his father loves him but isn’t sure the man likes him, which is what he craves. As anyone who has played a part in this ancient drama knows, there’s no single moment of reconciliation. It comes with time, incrementally. And it’s not the father who changes."

“As if channeling Huckleberry Finn, Henry David Thoreau and James Dean, Tougias has written a funny, insightful and finally profound autobiography”

“It’s a story with plenty of comical moments but “The Waters Between Us” also recounts a tragedy that brought a reckoning for Tougias and his family — and his father’s response to that incident gave his son a better appreciation for his dad’s values and ultimately brought the two closer.”

“Tougias carries readers through his itchy adolescence to his restless young adulthood by skillfully balancing his comic misadventures with a deepening passion for nature as a source of joy and peace that often eludes him elsewhere.”

“A gripping read!”

Overboard! A True Bluewater Odyssey of Disaster and Survival

“A heart-pounding account of the storm that tore apart a forty-five-foot sailboat. Author Michael Tougias is the master of the weather-related disaster book.”

“Overboard is a beautiful story deserving of a good cry.”

“Tougias has a knack for weaving thoroughly absorbing stories – adventure fans need this one!

Fatal Forecast: An Incredible True Tale of Disaster and Survival at Sea

“A passionately recounted peril-at-sea adventure...described with excruciating intensity. A blustery seafarer's delight, rendered with gusto.”

“Tougias spins a marvelous and terrifying yarn....this is a breathtaking book.”

“Tougias's terrifying tale will stun you...leaving you breathless, exhilarated, and finally amazed.”

“Ernie Hazard’s experiences, as related by Tougias, deserve a place as a classic of sea survival history.”

“Tougias spins a dramatic saga. . . . (He) has written eighteen books and this is among his most gripping.”

Ten Hours Until Dawn

“The best story of peril at sea since Sebastian Junger’s Perfect Storm. Superb!”

“What a story! Tougias’ research and writing make the reader feel as if they are onboard the Can Do during the Blizzard of ’78.”

“An incredible tale of heroism and sacrifice.”

A Storm Too Soon

“By depicting the event from the perspective of both the rescued and the rescuers and focusing only on key moments and details, Tougias creates a suspenseful, tautly rendered story that leaves readers breathless but well-satisfied. Heart-pounding action for the avid armchair adventurer.”

“The riveting, meticulously researched “A Storm Too Soon” tells the true-life tale of an incredible rescue”

“Tougias deftly switches from heart-pounding details of the rescue to the personal stories of the boat’s crew and those of the rescue team. The result is a well-researched and suspenseful read.”

“Already a maven of maritime books with Overboard! and Fatal Forecast, Tougias cinches that title here. Working in the present tense Tougias lets the story tell itself, and what a story! Any one reading (A Storm Too Soon) will laud Tougias’ success.”