Nothing for mahala! Pay up
Who does not know that the cost of living is shooting through the roof? Nowadays, nothing comes cheap, including petrol. Getting a lift from friend who is going the same direction as you is usually no big deal. Most car owners offer that favour anyway. The problem comes when someone expects a ride, not once, but all the time, yet they are not willing to help pay for petrol. During these difficult economic times, it is important for us to be a little considerate. The fact that someone drives does not mean that they are managing. In fact, it is cheaper to use public transport than a private car. Many of those who opt for private cars are paying through the nose to enjoy convenience. Some of the cars on the roads move on a quarter tank or less throughout the month. Some petrol gauges are always blinking ‘red’. It is even funny how some car owners have mastered their petrol gauges. They know how many more extra kilometers their cars can move with that ‘red’ light. When you ask for a lift, take note that the person you are asking a lift from needs money for petrol. Why is it that some people find it easy to ask for a free ride, but know very well that should they use public transport, paying is not an option? One should appreciate the convenience and comfort that comes with getting a lift from a friend, and show that appreciation by helping to pay for petrol. In many instances, a lift also comes with the assurance that you will be dropped off right at your doorstep. Nothing for mahala anymore. Those freebie days are over! It is painful when this sort of behavior comes from close friends and relatives. These know how to take advantage of the relationship to milk you. They even do it with a clear conscience. When you gather enough courage to finally confront them, they may even start calling you names.
Acknowledge that car ownership entails even far more than just paying for petrol. If you consistently get a lift from a friend, colleague or relative, regardless of whether they are already going your way or not, you need not only to understand this, but to also pay for petrol once in a while.
On another note, should someone be kind enough to lend you their car, be reasonable enough to refill the tank and ensure that the car is clean. Just be courteous. When you are, people will not hesitate to assist you in times of need.