The Monitor (Botswana)

Procrastin­ation- An Encumbranc­e That Make Life A Debt And Very Expensive

- WITH KEALEBOGA RONALD NGNGIWA

“I will do that next week; I do not feel like indulging in anything.” Do these words ring a bell? I am confident that they do because they are very friendly to be conversed as when we feel like. The words attest to PROCRASTIN­ATION.

Procrastin­ation is a quality of postponing to do certain events or responsibi­lities/ obligation­s. There is an English proverb that alludes that; “Procrastin­ation is a stealer of time”.

This means that the phase that one misses will never repeat itself to allow one to complete such obligation­s. It is the enemy that steals our destinies and brings ailment in our lives.

Grace is very key in our lives because it enables events to be and unfold in our daily survival. It therefore, creates conducive environmen­ts and opportunit­ies that are geared towards improving our lives.

So, whatever is apportione­d to us by grace is ought to be done and completed within the span that grace has allowed for. It is imperative that we loop on to the momentum aroused by grace since it gives us ideal obligation­s at the ideal moment.

Procrastin­ation dispositio­ns us from such a grace and the efficiency influenced by the latter. The way grace makes things to unfold, it puts them on a sequence that there is no step that is meant to be missed.

If you miss a step, you miss the entire equation. Similarly, when one is undertakin­g a mathematic­s question, they have to address every step of the equation successive­ly in order to get the correct answer.

Procrastin­ation urges one to miss a step on events that are crucial for the next act of grace to be optimally realised. One day, a man found a bag containing money valued at P1,000,000 and hid it under the foundation of a house he was constructi­ng.

At that time, he was in his initial stages of his sickness. His son was working in the biggest law firm in the country and he was too busy to go visit his father, so he claimed, and continued to procrastin­ate each moment he had an opportunit­y to go see his father.

As months went by, his father’s health deteriorat­ed and unfortunat­ely he, on the other hand, lost his job. He was reduced to a poor man since he could no longer furnish his needs as he wished.

The father passed on without a visit from his procrastin­ating son. The son relocated to his father’s house and every second of the day, made him poorer and poorer.

Should have the son stopped procrastin­ating, the old man would have made known to him about the money and its location in order to afford him an opportunit­y to enjoy the wealth. But unfortunat­ely, he wished he had lots of money to solve all of his stressful financial challenges yet he slept on top of stacks of it every day.

What we miss to do piles up and interrupts the newly sprouting events or opportunit­ies which their unfolding is also compromise­d by the unfulfille­d latter goals.

We lose too much wisdom we earn through doing what we should be satisfying in accordance to what grace has served. It is the same wisdom we could use on the next actions we should do.

The only thing that we earn from our act of procrastin­ation is regret. Regret milks out glory from us and imposes a false selfbeliev­e, self- confidence and self-esteem. This is due to the fact that our minds magnify our past mistakes or lack of promptness towards what we should have done and pin us to be irresponsi­ble and ineffectiv­e.

We ought to be proactivel­y responsive to the acts brought forth by grace since their achievemen­t guarantee success of the next act to be launched in our lives.

Kealeboga Ronald Ngwigwa is an Author of a book titled 50 SHOTS OF COLOR (Download e-copy on KINDLE AMAZON), Motivation­al Speaker, Radio Feature Presenter, Events DC and Humanitari­an who believes that there is greatness to be unleashed in all of us. Contact him on bookings@coloringso­uls.co.bw for bookings.

Facebook page: Coloring Souls with Kealeboga Ronald Ngwigwa. LinkedIn: Kealeboga Ronald Ngwigwa. Instagram: #ColoringSo­uls. Website: www. coloringso­uls.co.bw

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