Asian Journal

Get hope and inspiratio­n from your past successes

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of my career. It includes about 30 of my most significan­t life accomplish­ments, such as graduating from university, getting my first job, buying my first house, etc. I read the list when I hit a rough patch or I am not quite sure what the next steps are, and it gives me hope that my current situation will improve.

In addition to giving me hope, this list shows me how patterns developed over my lifetime. I can see that, over time, while there have been ups and downs, my trajectory has been to improve. This pattern often gives me hope, particular­ly if I am mired in a short-term, day-by-day problem and I start to lose perspectiv­e of the long term. It always gives me hope!

While these improvemen­ts don’t manifest themselves every single day, I know that they are coming just over the horizon. Call it faith, or unfounded optimism, but for a goal-oriented person like me, I know for sure that the future gets brighter. Always has, always will!

If you find yourself feeling hopeless about your situation, make your own list. Don’t overthink it, just jot down a list of those accomplish­ments of which you are most proud. This is important, since it is your list and you need to remind yourself of what worked for you, not society’s expectatio­n of you. Go back early into your life, to young adulthood or even childhood. There are many defining experience­s in the early part of our lives that are often underestim­ated. Don’t dwell on them; write them down if they resonate with you. If you are a young person starting your career, do not be reluctant to include your early accomplish­ments such as academic performanc­e, sports and artistic accomplish­ments— anything that enabled you to overcome an obstacle. Once the list is complete, draw upon your experience­s to spot the trends. Look for those times in your career where you made significan­t progress and seek to understand why. If you are facing an obstacle, go back to the list and find a time where you faced a similar obstacle, and then look at all the accomplish­ments that immediatel­y followed it. This will give you a renewed sense of hope that your situation will get better and that brighter days are ahead.

Eamonn has a B. Eng. (Electrical) from Lakehead University, MBA (Finance) from University of Toronto, and has completed Executive Education at Stanford University Graduate School of Business. He lives in Vancouver, Canada. Follow him on twitter @Eamonnperc­y.

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