Calgary Herald

Denounce envy and restore community standards

- KATHLEEN PARKER

America’s capacity for optimism and hope has been boundless through much of our short history.

The tangible returns of hard work; the ordered liberty sustained through community consent; and opportunit­y honed over time to apply equally to all men and women — these were the currency of what we called the American dream.

Essential to these achievemen­ts was courage. The Founding Fathers were above all courageous as they challenged a king, fought and died for freedom, and created a country from scratch with little more than mettle and intellectu­al vigour.

If this isn’t exceptiona­l, then we have lost the meaning of words.

As we begin yet another new year, it is less easy to summon the dream. Instead of hope, a word that brought us a new president, we have entered an era of envy and doubt — envy for those who have more, and doubt that we can ever dig ourselves out of debilitati­ng debt.

Depending on whose prognostic­ations one believes, we are either rebounding, by dribs and drabs, or perched on the precipice of economic ruin. Let’s figure we’re somewhere in between, which falls short of inspiring. What is certain is that our economic standing in the world is damaged, our credit and credibilit­y are weak, and business confidence is still in limbo.

Do weak economies and moral decay go hand in hand? We certainly seem poised to find out.

From Miley Cyrus’ naked cavorting on a wrecking ball — well, one can at least admire her metaphoric succulence — to Anthony Weiner’s Twitter projection­s of His Very Own Self, we have lost all sense of decorum, that voluntary commitment to behaviour that combines a willingnes­s to consider others first (at minimum, keeping our clothes on), enforced through the exercise of selfrestra­int.

Note the term self-restraint. No one’s arguing for a new Puritanism, heaven forbid, but a pivot toward responsibl­e adulthood would be helpful in recreating a culture that doesn’t pinch our faces with revulsion.

Part of the problem is our sense of helplessne­ss before the overwhelmi­ng power of technology, which has erased the physical boundaries of community. With so many liberated ids running around, it’s hard to find a safe place to grow children.

I suppose what I’m lamenting is the loss of our national imperative to do and be better.

Where once we fashioned ourselves according to best behaviours, we now accommodat­e ourselves to the least. Take a look around a mall, if you can bear to enter. Valium recommende­d.

So, yep, we’re a mess, but, in the spirit of American optimism, not doomed.

To preserve the dream, two resolution­s come to mind: Denounce envy and resurrect the community standard.

Envy is the core emotion driving the current debate about income inequality and the notion that the poor are poor because the rich are rich. Nonsense. The economy is not, in fact, a pie. When one gets a bigger slice, others do not ipso facto get a smaller one. Instead of redistribu­ting wealth to spread misery around, the goal should be to make the poor richer, which means jobs, education and tax/regulation relief for employers.

Fundamenta­l to all else is allegiance to community standards — the tacit agreement among adults that our communitie­s be as physically secure and psychologi­cally safe as possible for the well-being of children, who, let’s do put a fine point on it, someday soon will be in charge.

For guidance, the correct answer to nearly any question is another question: What is best for children?

We may have been created with a universal yearning for freedom, but we have learned through experience that freedom is earned rather than bestowed. To keep it, one must be vigilant.

All it takes is courage.

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