Calgary Herald

Canadians thinking twice about divorce with real estate prices on the rise

- JANE RUDD Freelance Writer

The onset of COVID-19 changed almost every aspect of life for Canadians. Relationsh­ips have been no exception, with media outlets and law firms across

the country reporting rising demand for separation and divorce.

There's one group who hasn't been mentioned in most of this discourse: people who want a divorce, but can't get one.

Things had been on the rocks for Kristin and her partner before the pandemic, and spending 13 months working from home together made for an even more tense situation.

“We met, were married and living together in under a year. The relationsh­ip definitely moved too fast, in retrospect.”

Now, Kristin and her partner are weighing their options as the writing is on the wall.

“We both know this relationsh­ip is not going to last,” she shared. “We are trying

to remain civil, but we both definitely want out of this relationsh­ip and out of this mortgage.”

Their situation is not unique with relationsh­ips falling apart and finances tighter than ever for many Canadians.

What is the biggest barrier to ending a failing marriage? It's the unknown. How much will it cost to get a divorce? How do we

split our debt? Do I have to buy him out? What if I don't have the money to do so?

One thing they both knew. They had to move forward in some way or risk the end moving painstakin­gly slow. After trying to solve this process on their own, they decided profession­al support was going to be the most practical and cost-effective way to move forward.

A financial advisor and a divorce lawyer were key in Kristin and her partner finding their next steps.

Before picking up the phone to a lawyer, her sister suggested demystifyi­ng the first steps with a divorce lawyer in Canada. Acclaimed Canadian family lawyer, Corrine Kulyk, and Vexxit produced a freeto-the-public resource on

Vexxit Life in response to the pandemic to help Canadians navigate the divorce process. How to Prepare for

Divorce or Separation: What to expect from your divorce lawyer gave her a sense of what things would look like on the legal side.

For Kristin, “having accurate and easy-to-process informatio­n” was critical as she and her partner closed their chapter together. Armed with informatio­n

and the right profession­als, they were able to create a financial and separation plan proving to them that “in times of overwhelm, knowledge and advice can make or break your plan of action.”

Vexxit Life provides accessible resources for all Canadians free of charge. Vexxit works with leading Canadian lawyers, financial advisors, accountant­s and consultant­s to provide vetted informatio­n to empower and support you through life's toughest moments.

If you want to take the next steps and find a finance, law or consulting profession­al, Vexxit matches you with a profession­al that caters to your needs for free. Visit vexxit.com to learn how Vexxit is helping Canadians solve their most challengin­g problems, in life and in business.

 ?? SUPPLIED ?? Some Canadians are feeling stuck in both their homes and relationsh­ips as house prices in some regions land at an all-time high.
SUPPLIED Some Canadians are feeling stuck in both their homes and relationsh­ips as house prices in some regions land at an all-time high.

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