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Manitoba premier apologizes to men switched at birth in hospital for 'terrible mistake'

- Lara Schroeder

Two men who were sent to wrong homes after their births at a hospital in 1955 say they're happy with what they believe is a sin‐ cere apology made to them by Manitoba's premier on Thursday.

Premier Wab Kinew stood in the Manitoba Legislativ­e Assembly to formally apolo‐ gized to Edward Ambrose and Richard Beauvais for the mistake that led to them being raised by each other's families.

"I rise today to deliver an apology that has been a long time coming, for actions that harmed two children, two sets of parents and two fami‐ lies across many genera‐ tions," Kinew said.

"We sincerely apologize for our failure to care for you, to protect you, to ensure that you would grow up with the love of the families who wel‐ comed you into this world."

The two men, who were both born at an Arborg, Man., hospital on June 28, 1955, sat in the House as they received the apology their lawyer first requested in April 2022.

Ambrose is Métis but grew up believing he was Ukrainian; Beauvais is Ukrainian, Jewish and Polish, but always thought he was Métis.

The mistake wasn't dis‐ covered until recently, and both have said the shocking discovery has been difficult to handle.

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"We are sometimes asked to understand empathy and compassion by considerin­g what it's like to walk a mile in another person's shoes," Kinew said at the start of his speech.

"Our honoured guests here today will perhaps un‐ derstand compassion and empathy on a level that very few of us will ever be able to approach."

Men happy with apology Beauvais said he's not big on apologies, but felt the pre‐ mier was sincere in his words. He felt very good about talking to Kinew in per‐ son, he said.

Ambrose also said he was happy with the apology, that it was touching and what he was looking for.

Although the mistake was discovered last year, the two men met face to face for the first time just this week.

"It's emotional … meeting someone who is you - but I am him," Ambrose said fol‐ lowing Kinew's apology.

"It was a great feeling of meeting someone, even [though] we were switched at birth, but to see them in per‐ son and meet with the family, it was an honour to see somebody that's part of you."

Beauvais joked the two wondered who was older, but that because Ambrose is balding, it had to be him.

"I could have other things to say," Ambrose quipped to a chorus of laughs from family members.

Beauvais's youngest daughter, Taryn, fought back tears as she spoke about how special the recent meet‐ ing of the two families has been for everyone.

"It's interestin­g to meet people who technicall­y, you're not blood related to, but you instantly become family with," she said.

She called it a sort of "beautiful blending of fami‐ lies," saying everyone in the families "has the biggest heart."

"No one is losing anything by this, but our family's just expanding and growing," she said.

"We're just looking for‐ ward to the future and get‐ ting to know each other even more, and have more cous‐ ins and more aunties and more brothers and more sis‐ ters than we used to."

Apology in 'spirit of healing and reconcilia­tion': Kinew

Kinew, who met with the men before the apology, laid out some of the facts of their lives.

Both of Ambrose's paren‐ ts died by the time he was 12, and Beauvais was taken from his home and lived with foster families, too, Kinew said.

He also outlined coinci‐ dences that cropped up dur‐ ing their lives.

Ambrose once asked his biological sister - who he did‐ n't know was his sister at the time - to play on his baseball team at recess as a child, Kinew said. He also lived just a few blocks away from his biological sister in Winnipeg.

Beauvais once fished next to his own biological sister on a shoreline in B.C., and an‐ other time stopped for a drink at a bar she worked at.

"Both men have parents that they've never met, family members they forever lost the opportunit­y to forge relationsh­ips with," Kinew said.

"Both men are embracing the old but also building something new for them‐ selves and for their families."

Kinew also noted that since the mistake was discov‐ ered, Ambrose has obtained Manitoba Métis Federation citizenshi­p. He's learning to bead and takes his grandson to powwows, said Kinew.

Beauvais has discovered that he was the only white man on what he believed was his all-Indigenous fishing crew in B.C., but he's making new connection­s with his birth family, and his daughter now has tattoos with the name "Ambrose."

The two men were also al‐ lowed to sit among MLAs on the floor of the legislatur­e - a rare occurrence, but one with some precedent, Kinew said.

He noted that while the situations are different, when prime minister Stephen Harper apologized to resi‐ dential school survivors, In‐ digenous representa­tives sat on the floor of the chamber on Parliament Hill in Ottawa.

"The idea that you use the seat of democracy to make something right for the peo‐ ple who've been failed by our government, I think, is an im‐ portant symbolic gesture that adds some weight to the words of apology," he said.

The premier said Thurs‐ day's apology was offered "in a spirit of healing and recon‐ ciliation."

"A great Manitoban, Jus‐ tice Murray Sinclair, has said that the need for reconcilia‐ tion has often arisen in our country's history when we have denied children the ability to answer four basic questions: who am I, where do I come from, why am I here, where am I going," Kinew said, referring to the former senator and chair of the Truth and Reconcilia­tion Commission.

"The province of Manitoba made a terrible mistake that stood in the way of you being able to answer these ques‐ tions for many, many years."

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