47-year-old gift fi­nally opened by girl who dumped boyfriend

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“Love Is: New Ways To Spot That Cer­tain Feel­ing” with a car­toons and say­ings about love.

“The irony is ex­treme,” Allen cried.

The event was a fundraiser for the Christ­mas Bureau of Ed­mon­ton, a lo­cal char­ity that pro­vides Christ­mas meals to fam­i­lies in need.

“Love is all of us, all of you, here tonight for the Christ­mas Bureau of Ed­mon­ton,” Pearce re­sponded.

Days af­ter Pearce’s story ap­peared last Christ­mas, a friend who knew them both in high school sent Allen a link to one of the many ar­ti­cles writ­ten about it. Allen re­sponded by click­ing “like” on some of Pearce’s Face­book posts, and Peace fig­ured out who it was. They got in touch, and even­tu­ally Pearce and his wife were in­vited to meet her where she now lives in Bri­tish Columbia.

They learned that they all got along. They also learned the rea­son Allen dumped Pearce all those years ago.

It turned out that while Allen was shop­ping for Pearce’s gift at the mall, she met an­other boy and he kissed her on the spot.

“It wouldn’t have been so bad, but I kissed him back,” Allen said.

She said she knew Pearce would find out she had be­trayed him. She knew it was over be­tween them.

“It was a very in­no­cent re­la­tion­ship. We were in high school,” Allen ex­plained about her re­la­tion­ship with Pearce.

“I didn’t know he felt as in­tensely as he did.”

For years, even af­ter he’d mar­ried, Pearce still placed the do­geared gift un­der the tree ev­ery Christ­mas. He en­joyed the mys­tery of it, but even­tu­ally his wife put her foot down when their daugh­ter, then five, wanted to open it.

“She said, ‘Daddy, when you die, I’ll be able to open it then, right?’ I told him he could keep it, but we just didn’t want (the gift) out in pub­lic,” she ex­plained.

“I’m pretty se­cure in our re­la­tion­ship. I’ve never been jeal­ous.”

Allen ad­mit­ted some trep­i­da­tion about meet­ing Pearce and his wife. Was he a stalker? He was a nice boy in 1971, but maybe, she thought, “he’s prob­a­bly be­come an ex­pert axe mur­der.”

Some peo­ple had ac­cused Allen of be­ing a ter­ri­ble per­son for giv­ing Pearce a Christ­mas present and then break­ing up with him. Pearce has also been called ev­ery­thing from “Heart­broke Bloke” in the Bri­tish press to “mo­ron” in one New York news­pa­per.

He’s since writ­ten a book about the whole ex­pe­ri­ence, and his wife and Allen con­trib­uted chap­ters.

“I think it’s ab­so­lutely fan­tas­tic that we’re friends. My wife is friends with (Vicki),” Pearce told the crowd.

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